If you have to ask me whether I’ll ever give you a “real date,” the answer is no. Always. Forever. Once the subtext “unpaid, because I don’t have enough self-esteem to cope with our current arrangement and/or you’re so good that I think you love me,” comes out, no. Never.
No one wants to stop the exploitation of #sexworkers more than sexworkers. No one knows more about the exploitation of sexworkers than sexworkers. Plus no one has more to gain than sexworkers if our own exploitation is stopped. So stop legislating our bodies and listen to us!
An unspoken part of this conversation is that if respectability is that tied into what a person does for money, where #sexwork erases all contributions to the world in relationships, care taking, art, social justice... your #feminism doesn’t center women, it centers capitalism.
We are getting bombarded by talk show hosts who want to interview sexworkers about SESTA/FOSTA. None of our group wants to do them. Most sexworkers have had bad experiences. Reporters tend to sensationalize the sex and devote little time to our plight.
If I turn the lights down reaaaaally low, hopefully he won’t notice how red my butthole is from being sick for 3 days and shitting food and fat. I like to think of myself as a high-end #escort, really. All the glamour of #sexwork as long as you don’t look at my bootyhole today.
Interesting how #NOLA seems to be fun-hating on #strippers, but the senate in #Louisiana only voted 25-10 on SB 236 to make beastiality illegal (replacing an older unconstitutional bill that also included “sodomy,” because we don’t live in the Bronze Age).
Wow! I could not have asked for my meeting with the anti-traf coordinator to go any better than it did! We talked about how to collaborate and use resources to end trafficking while respecting #sexworkers, about how #FOSTA#SESTA suck, & decrim. I learned AND felt heard. Win!
Want to see something scary? Type "stormy daniels" in your twitter search bar & then click the button for "latest" option. Guess someone didn't like me defending myself and/or doesn't want people being able search my news stories.
Headed to Chicago to make some new #sexwork friends and mutually bitch about #FOSTA#SESTA and #SB1204. If you’re one of them, I’d love to grab a drink. (Not accepting appointments/new clients, sorry gents.)
Score! I set the mood with “Zack and Miri Make a Porno” and spent 101 minutes eating chili and cornbread with a client. I am 200x more likely to actually be fun if you feed me cornbread as foreplay. #gfe#CouchPotatoEscorting#NotAVictim