Evlenirsen pişman olursun. Evlenmezsen de pişman olursun. Çocuk yapsan da yapmasan da pişman olursun. Kierkegaard bunu 200 yıl önce şöyle söylemiştir:
"Neyi seçersen seç pişman olursun. Çünkü sorun tercihlerinde değil yaşanmamış bir hayatı romantize etmendir. İnsan her daim gidilmemiş bir yolu cazibeli ve gizemli bulur. Bu yüzden mesele en doğru seçimi yapman değil. Hangi pişmanlıkla yaşayacağını seçip karar vermendir."
Sen neye karar verdin?
You must understand the role that feeling special plays in most women's sexuality. She must be special to you, and you must be special to her. EXCEPT. When you are not fucking special, bro, you follow the rules like everyone else. And most importantly, when SHE is not special, and needs to be treated as totally worthless. But only by you.
You will never discover some objective, female-of-the-species logic behind these fluctuations, because there is none. The woman you love's mood will change, unpredictably, according to some combination of life circumstance, whimsy, hormones, the dream she had last night, and sometimes, whatever is going on with her friends. You can not "understand" a woman in a way that you can grasp with your mind. But over time, if you relax, and stop trying to solve her like a puzzle, her unique patterns will begin to surface. Your surprise victories and half-glimpsed revelations will start to whisper wordless truths that vibrate softly against the back walls of your heart. You'll start instinctively following the little sighs of relief she makes when she feels understood, like bread crumbs in a dark forest. And you'll begin to develop a working attunement to her inner world, which is often as mysterious to her as it is to you. And soon, you'll start to resonate with it, subtly, wordlesslly, intuitively. When this happens, it will humble and floor her, and she will love you her whole life long.
Listen, because this is the most important part: You must not resent women for being like this. You must not love them despite this, while wishing they were another way. You must love women for being like this precisely because they are like this.
It's your only chance at being loved in the same way.
I too am enjoying Hunter Biden being a great poster, but some people are a little too surprised that the son of a President is smart, well-informed, and good at communicating, as if they think addiction only happens to idiots