Steven Garcia

US 🇺🇸 Navy Vet ⚓️ World Traveler 🌎

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@lolitadiariess Congrats Lolita!! 👏💪

[Hector Castillo @hekkycastillo]

There's nothing wrong with wanting to f lots of women and simply having carnal desire.

There's nothing wrong with getting a bit frustrated when girls try to use it as a carrot on a stick to get you to invest more and "prove" yourself like a monkey doing games.

There's also nothing wrong with girls wanting to get laid and have fun.

There's also nothing wrong with girls wanting to make a guy wait to see if he wants more than just her body or getting a bit frustrated when a guy only wants her body.

But it is our responsibility to become MORE than just our desires, which will then make our desires WORTHY of being satisfied.

It's a woman's responsibility to be more interesting than just her beauty if she wants to be desired for more than her looks/body. Most women AREN'T more interesting than their looks and that's 100% their fault. Even if she doesn't have the best face, she can make her body look great and her personality as good. And get better at character judgment so that you're not like every other girl making guys jump through hoops and proving themselves. Any man who subjects himself to that game is by his very nature a lesser man and you're a lesser woman for accepting him. The women who are interesting AND have looks are very rare and are quite the catch.

It's a man's responsibility to become interesting/hot enough that a woman has the desire to share her body with him and want him, whether for something short term or long-term. Most men AREN'T more interesting than their basic niceness and potential to provide and that's 100% their fault. Even if not born with good looks or height, he can gain charisma, humor, status, and conversational skills (game) and for women these are more important than genetic gifts like height or good looks (but since most men lack these, basic primal desires like looks and height just become de facto stronger factors than they should be). Men who have both good looks and are cool/sexy are very rare and quite the catch.

You're responsible for everything in your life.

I even assert that if you were born short, ugly, or w/e, that it's 100% you're fault. I believe in karma and you were born with less than good traits because of your actions in your previous lives.

Everything is your fault.

That also means everything can be fixed.

Get to work.

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@lolitadiariess The Hat Trick was mind blowing

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@lolitadiariess Fun weekday adventures in 🇨🇷

[𝕾𝖎𝖗 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘 @eagleseyeinc]

when you choose someone to build a life with, don’t only look at how they make you feel.

look at how they communicate when things get hard, how they treat you when they're tired, how they handle pressure, disappointment, responsibility and change cos attraction can begin a story but character is what has to live inside it. their habits will become part of your days. their reactions will shape the atmosphere of your home. their way of seeing life will either bring you peace or slowly take it from you.

you’re not just choosing someone for the beautiful moments. you are choosing someone for the ordinary days, the difficult seasons, the decisions, the silence, the future. look, love matters yes but the person you build with matters even more.

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@Linahuaa You sound like me 😅

It's all about letting people be who they wanna be and enjoying them for who they are

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@linderps This mindset is needed more of in our society 👏💯

[Linda Chen @linderps]

it’s absurdly easier as a girl to approach guys and i genuinely wish it were different.

when i was trying to find a bf in college, i would literally go up to dudes at the school bar and just say “hi! I’m linda, what’s your name” and that was it. despite the embarrassingly high success rate, i was still incredibly nervous to do it.

it gave me a lot of empathy to people who approach. so whenever someone would come up to me, no matter how attractive or awkward they were, i always tried to be kind.

i know sometimes we don’t like people interrupting our space. i know sometimes, it makes us feel uncomfortable.

but it’s worth remembering: the other person probably feels uncomfortable too. inside, they might be fighting against nervousness, embarrassment, and the fear of rejection.

they're just choosing to push past it in pursuit of finding some sort of human connection.

It’s my personal belief that people aren’t trying to hurt you. they just want to get to know you.

and i think that's worth meeting with a bit of kindness.

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@lolitadiariess My condolences to you y tu familia amiguita 🙏

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@lolitadiariess Necesito ese plato en mi vida!!!

Que rico 😋👏

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@lolitadiariess Thanks for sharing Lolita, this was very sweet of you to do 👏

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@lolitadiariess It's true, that's why I do Hip Thrusts 😂

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@lolitadiariess That Neighborhood is beautiful!

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

1. Women are often more misogynistic than men. Nobody places women on a lower pedestal quite like women themselves. For example, isn't it funny that when a woman wants to insult a man, she'll say, "You're behaving like a woman"?

2. Women sexualize themselves more than they accuse men of sexualizing them. Social media is perhaps the clearest example of this. Many women willingly post highly suggestive photos and videos, place a strong emphasis on their bum bum and boobs, and often compete for attention using sex appeal.

3. The primary reason many women go into relationships and marriages is for a man's provision. For them, it's often about security and survival before anything else. We've all heard women say, "If I can do all this for myself, why do I need a man?" The wealthier a woman becomes, the more likely she is to feel she doesn't need a man.
The main thing many men bring to a relationship is provision, which is why some women begin to resent their partners when they can no longer meet their financial or provider responsibilities.

4. A woman will do everything to make you less masculine and then end up hating you for it because she will eventually see you as weak.
"I love a man who shows his emotions. It's okay to cry."
"I love a man who lets me into the challenges he's going through. I want to hear him complain. I will always be there for him."
Women often say they want emotional vulnerability from men, yet many are less attracted to men who display certain forms of vulnerability.
Do not be deceived. The day you lose your masculinity before a woman is the day she may begin to resent you and make you pay for it.

5. The worst set of superiors to work under are often women. In fact, I can bet that many women today would rather work under a male boss. Woman-to-woman relationships rarely last because they tend to see through each other's deceit and shenanigans.
There are many women today who would rather have male friends than keep other women as close friends.

6. You can do everything for a woman, but the day you wrong her, or the moment the relationship goes south, she suddenly forgets every good thing you ever did. All she remembers is what she did for you, what you didn't do for her, and every mistake you made along the way.

7. In dating, many women still expect traditional treatment while preferring modern relationship dynamics in other areas. A man should open the car door for his woman, provide for her, and never suggest a 50/50 arrangement. He should kneel down to propose. Yet, the moment you mention that a woman should cook or wash clothes for her man, it becomes a third world war.
Many women expect men to uphold traditional standards while embracing modern feminist values for themselves. Even in relationships, a man is expected to provide, love, care for, pamper, and be intentional about his woman, while the woman remains his equal and may refuse to take on traditional responsibilities such as cooking for him.
A man is expected to demonstrate his intentionality from the very first day he meets a woman, but a woman is often told to wait until she is properly wifed before she starts performing "wifey" duties.

8. Everything women love and admire romantically is usually something they envision being done for them.
"I'm so big on gifts and surprises."
Meanwhile, it's all about receiving them, not giving them. 😂😂😂

9. A woman can never effectively raise a boy child.

10. Women expect men to read signals and hints, then get frustrated when those hints are missed.
One of the reasons many women don't shoot their shot at men isn't necessarily because of a fear of rejection, as they often make us believe. It's because they know that once they make the first move, they lose the bargaining power.
You can't shoot your shot at a man and then, two weeks later, start billing him or suddenly remember that you haven't eaten all day. 😂

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@smithhmackenzie This hits home so hard.

I've been on that wave lately, just slowing down & enjoying my peace & tranquility without having to worry about chasing the next big thing.

Now I prioritize my health, peace, relationships, & overall well-being above everything else in my life 💫

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@Pat_Stedman This hits home so hard

Currently long distance, and whenever I work longer hours than usual or end up not being able to communicate that day... our connection wanes

It seems like the only reasonable way for me to keep her happy is by not working and talking every day for hours.

[Lance Corporate @lance_corporate]

The number of men I know who have to spend a week in the doghouse every time they go on a MANDATORY WORK TRIP is so baffling to me.

Bro already feels bad enough that he has to leave, and then his wife does the “ok” text thing the whole time and just casts a dark shadow on his entire day/week. Brutal.

Many of these wives love the lifestyle afforded by the salary that comes with the corporate title and role, the vacations and SUVs and girls trips and private schools, and then pout and mope around the house when Chad actually has to do his job.

These dudes look absolutely deflated on the last day of travel knowing they have to go home and basically tiptoe around moody woman doing the silent treatment routine for the next three days.

Conversely, the guys with grateful, supportive, joyful wives cannot wait to get home.

An excellent, godly wife is an infinite force multiplier, in every area of life.

[Lovers’ Guide 💟 @guideforlovers]

F*cking your wife's brains out 2-3 times a week is a recipe for a peaceful home

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@lolitadiariess Damn 😭

[Steven Garcia @Plopyflop]

@lolitadiariess Super sick!!

You're glowing in these photos too friend! 👏💫