there’s a difference between a person who hurts you by making a mistake, and a person who hurts you by continuing a pattern. mistakes can be forgiven. patterns should be broken
hardest pill to swallow is realizing people do not care. they will hurt you and really go on about their lives. not even slightly affected about what they did to you and how you feel. regardless if it’s friendships, relationships, or family.
unhealed trauma makes you hold onto people longer than you should, and tolerate a lot of sh*t you don't deserve because you don't want to feel alone. healing makes you realize some people don't deserve to be in your life, no matter how much you love them.