@Akikanju1568901@ruffydfire Bro this guy isn’t biased, he actually give same treatment to all his guests. The issue is the manner at which the guests’ welcomes his questions. Obi was ready to answer even the most uncomfortable questions, I don’t think others can.
Dear Young Nigerians,
One lesson from the 2023 elections, particularly in Lagos, should never be forgotten.
In the period following the presidential election and leading up to the governorship election, we witnessed a troubling shift in public discourse. Conversations that should have focused on competence, governance, development, and the future of our nation were gradually diverted towards tribal sentiments, ethnic divisions, and unnecessary suspicion among citizens.
Many sincere and well-meaning Nigerians participated in these conversations without realising that they were being drawn into narratives carefully designed by others.
Throughout history, whenever politicians find it difficult to compete on ideas, performance, character, or vision, some resort to exploiting the fault lines of ethnicity, religion, and identity. Their calculation is simple: a divided people are easier to manipulate than a united people.
Today, I see similar efforts emerging again, sometimes in more subtle and sophisticated ways. Narratives are planted, amplified, and circulated, often by individuals who genuinely believe they are defending a worthy cause, without recognizing the broader agenda behind such campaigns.
Let me state clearly that Pastor Enoch Adeboye remains one of the foremost fathers of faith in our nation. For decades, he has consistently preached the virtues of peace, prayer, love, reconciliation, and national unity. Even when faced with provocation, his response has always reflected humility, restraint, wisdom, and grace.
At 84 years of age, it would be unfair for young and able-bodied Nigerians to transfer to him responsibilities that properly belong to them. The task of building a better Nigeria rests primarily on the shoulders of the younger generation. It is their duty to lead the conversations, champion the reforms, and drive the positive change our nation urgently requires.
We must be careful not to become instruments in the hands of those who secretly nurture division while publicly preaching unity. In most cases, their target is not the individual being attacked; instead, it is the person who is attacking. Their real objective is to weaken the bonds that hold us together as one people and one nation.
I therefore urge all young Nigerians: do not allow anyone to recruit you into hatred. Do not allow anyone to weaponise your ethnicity, your faith, or your admiration for respected leaders.
Question every narrative. Verify every claim. Follow the facts. Resist manipulation.
The Nigeria of our dreams can only be built by citizens who refuse to be divided, who choose unity over hatred, and who place our collective future above narrow interests.
A New Nigeria is POssible. -PO
@KristieSymon@ShevyJonjo It all depends how deep the hurt was. Some persons might process it and forgive Immediately while some other persons might require some time.
Silent treatment is not emotional punishment it is a defense mechanism
You are not a victim of their silence. You are the cause of it.
Instead of focusing on what the silent treatment will lead too focus on what led to it
Instead of telling us what you're learning from it examine your actions and see how it taught your partner to distance themselves from you
When you hurt someone, you forfeited your right to dictate the terms of their response
Their silence is a boundary one they are entirely entitled to draw.
Withdrawing access from someone who has caused is logic. It is self-protection. It is the rational response to a demonstrated threat.
If you genuinely want resolution, the path is to make amends, offer restitution, and wait.
You do not negotiate with their healing. You do not impose timelines. You do not reframe their pain as your persecution.
That reframing and threatening to cause them more pain for not handling the initial pain the way you like is is manipulation.
The person who hurt someone and then demands emotional access from the person they hurt is not suffering. They are simply uncomfortable with consequences.
When a person withdraws they are creating distance from the source of their pain. That distance is not abuse, it is protection.
And protecting themselves from you does not make you a victim
You hurt someone, and now you expect access to them. You expect conversation, emotional availability, and cooperation on your terms. That expectation is entitlement. It is pressure. It is psychological intrusion dressed up as a need for “communication.”
If you’ve caused harm, the responsibility is yours. Use the silence to reflect, to take accountability, and to make genuine amends. Offer restitution where possible, instead of trying to control how the other person should process or express their pain.
Do better.
@Wizarab10 There’s no way you will fuck a girl to orgasm and she wouldn’t enjoy having sex with you. Bro you gat figure out wetin orgasm mean first, coz you maybe doing the wrong things.
@Wizarab10 If there’s thunderbolt sermon preachers in your school, join them and live with them in their secretariat. Other option is to forfeit schooling for like 2 or 3 years, find another school outside your geopolitical zone and begin again. If not dem go pressure to your bone marrow
@Wizarab10 If the parents of the girl have the money to train up the child then you wouldn’t get the child. Only if you have paid the girl’s dowry is when you can have custody of the child.
@Wizarab10 If you’re very sure she’s the one you want to marry then go ahead and tell the brother but if you’re not, is better you don’t startup anything at all.
@Jhood_O@Iamkolotayo Bro your friends you contributed to their weddings don’t owe you shit ooo, you did for others no mean say others Must do for you. Is best you learn how to give or support people without expecting reward or benefits.