My attorney advised me that even though our abuser hasn't asked to see the kids for 6 months i had to offer to show I could coparent. I grey rocked the kids & dressed to draw his attention. The lenghts we have to go to protect the children in a system that says they are property.
@emily_saves The suffering never ends with children. They hurt children. In unimaginable ways. Every chance they get. Gaslighting. Love bombing. Lying. Rage. Shaming. They Con. Mirror. Distort. Harm. Abuse the children for pleasure. The added side bonus your struggle to mitigate the damage.
@TimeToRecover74 They are always OTW. With kids the abuse never ends. He controls most of my waking thought due to this system. Emotionally abusive Sadists have rights. He may not Cum from hurting the kids the way he did with me... When he bothers to reach out he does get off on their pain.
@thecourtsaidSCO The key there is without concern for their child. That is the focus. Pretty background pics of bruises, but focua on the kids. No one cares a parent is abused. Prove the abuse to the kids. It is so hard :-(
@TimeToRecover74 There is a difference between leaving a relationship and deciding to go no contact and being the narc's discard. The line can be blurred to further abuse a victim.
The political meaning behind a mask... Sticking to outdoor & social distancing... I live with a person who checks Many vulnerable boxes... I have to play the safest odds...
The reporting should be revelant & statistical. It is all shit.
#StillOnLockdown#AnyoneElse
@MThriving More actively seek and destroy and then try to crazy make.... It isn't only the big painful stuff but the tiny crazy making day to day things. Mention in passing not being a fan of a particular theme park=receive an annual family pass for birthday. Question one's own sanity.
@survivorstrong3 He smashed walls broke tvs & kicked myself and 90 year old grandma out. He printed wedding pictures & hung them in the hallway. I told him I was very tired from transporting senile gma across the county and asked if I could give his project the attention it deserved tomorrow.
@DangerousPlayg3 @survivorstrong3 I commented on the legos being to small for the baby. He snapped he checked them. I got a TP tube and checked myself. When the lego fell through the hole and hit the ground... I was obviously challenging him.
@WeAre__Warriors I am with you. I am able to protect my kids for now by staying married to our abuser. He only uses the court to threaten and gain control. I let it happen so long a it keeps my small ones safe. Divorce could save me but destroy them which would destroy me.
@CCCBuryStEd All of this is us. The level of risk. The fear is real. Good abusers look better in court than true victims. I live this fear alone and afraid. Paralyzed. My children to young to understand.