Read books.
Most of the problems people face with money, career, and life are not new. Someone struggled with it, studied it, and wrote the solution down decades ago.
Books compress experience. You get 30 or 40 years of someone else’s lessons in a few hours. That is why reading saves you time, money, and unnecessary mistakes.
If you want better results, borrow better thinking from people who have already been where you are trying to go.
& if you check yourself and realize you come from an average family that isn’t supportive enough, that your parents aren’t also financially comfortable
pay close attention;
if you know that within 24 hrs, your entire family coming together still couldn’t raise at least $10,000 in this economy, stay out of trouble. i’m telling you that for free. you have no business chasing endless enjoyment or la vida loca. your place is on the battlefield, working relentlessly on yourself.
i will always tell the younger generation the truth: poverty is far more damaging than most people understand.
if a sibling falls critically ill and the entire family still can’t raise enough money for treatment or surgery, that’s a reality you cannot ignore. i’ve also heard of people who secured life changing opportunities abroad, even free visas or contracts but lost em cos they couldn’t afford the flight ticket and their family couldn’t support.
if deep down you know this could be your reality or fate, make it your mission to break that cycle.
there should be days you need to go totally offline, switch off your phone, ignore distractions and focus completely on becoming better than you were yesterday. the consequences of being a young man without money or a strong support system can be brutal. that’s why, while you’re still coming up, treat your growth like a responsibility, not an option.
walk with me to learn
buena suerte as you do so 👍
People need to realize that the woman they rate so much is because they haven’t heard them speak or be with them
Women are all thesame is the most accurate statement in the history of Mankind
I interviewed a Romanian candidate the other day for the role of Senior Python Engineer.
This guy just dey answer all the questions correctly until we asked him to share his full screen.
The end. 😂
One thing I've observed now that I'm 35+ is that careers are far less linear than we think.
People build incredible careers and businesses but what I've also seen is that sometimes things fall apart. Not because they're lazy. Not because they're incompetent. Not because they did anything wrong.
Air Peace Is Ready For North America: New York, Atlanta, Houston, And Toronto - Allen Onyema
The Federal Government has officially designated Air Peace for routes to New York, Atlanta, Houston, and Toronto. Addressing Nigeria’s recent loss of US 'Category 1' status, CEO Allen Onyema emphasized that Air Peace is fully validated globally and actively invites US authorities to audit the airline to prove Nigeria’s readiness.
Life is a personal experience.
As simple as that sounds, you have to think about it deeply.
If you are always comparing your finances, relationships and life to others, you will never enjoy life.
Being an executive assistant/Chief of Staff is one of the greatest hacks in the corporate industry. You are literally a body double of the c-suite executive.
My friend(3rd party), a farmer, married decided to relocate to the UK in Jan /Feb 2023. Had his wife listed as dependant against everyone's advice.
Everyone who knew the dynamics of their marriage felt he should have dissolved the union let alone spend the extra money to bring his wife along to the UK.
Denies him sex regularly, 3 years of marriage but no child and refused to complete ivf treatment, she never listens to the husband unless her pastor in ibadan ascents to it.
Oh about the pastor and ibadan, she only relocated to ilesa after 8 months of marriage and pressure from both families, she said she couldn't change church.
Long story short, she joined him in the UK, (I don't want to talk about how she disposed household items lol). They continued to have niggles which persisted. I advised his friend who is our mutual to tell him to remove her from the visa so he could focus on his life and studies in the UK, he refused. Bro graduated and they did post study, believing he's still married to his wife.
Apparently wife got COS at her job, quietly applied for work visa without listing her husband as dependant (at this moment it still remains my theory and assumption based on what I suspect must have been), upon expiry of the graduate visa, our friend is back home, but without his wife who miraculously has continued to work and enjoy residency in the UK.
I should feel sorry for him, but I don't.
Men need to be as ruthless as women when making life decision..
Dear young men, if you have good friends around you, they can't all be wrong.
It's a true life story.