"Half of life is lost in charming others. The other half is lost in going through anxieties caused by others. Leave this play, you have played enough."
β RUMI
Arnold Schwarzenegger's rule on complaining:
βNo complaining about a situation unless you're prepared to do something to make it better. If you see a problem and you don't come to the table with a potential solution, I don't want to hear your whining about how bad it is. It couldn't be that bad if it hasn't motivated you to try to fix it.β