Have you had stories told about you in rooms you've never been in...
....by people you've never met?
Do you want to become the kind of man who changes people's blood temperatue with his eye contact?
You're closer than you think
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let me tell you something,
this integration with ai is inevitable, we're entering into a cyborg age, and the paradigm of work/"getting things done" is changing
the trick isn't to fix it, it's to spend your time doing more of the human skills
IE read more books, write more - writing brings clarity to your thoughts (honestly if u even did these 2 without ai consistently, you would feel sharp as fck, and would than feed into being a better engineer)
I got 8 terminals open too, I just make sure to balance it with martial arts, reading and writing.
shame > unworthiness > self-harm > confirmation > more shame
guilt > blame > self-punishment > regret > more guilt
fear > threat > avoidance > smallness > more fear
anger > injustice > attack > resistance > more anger
pride > inferiority > defense > separation > more pride
courage > challenge > action > capability > more courage
willingness > opportunity > yes > momentum > more willingness
neutrality > what is > flexibility > ease > more neutrality
acceptance > the whole picture > peace > belonging > more acceptance
love > love everywhere > giving > receiving > more love
You're always inside one of them.
The question isn't how to escape the loop.
It's which loop you're choosing to live in.
@SolBrah Whats the significance of this? does it rlly matter?
I remember I used to be interested in all this stuff and resented the world for lying to me but is this not all illusory/ perception anyway?
isn't the quality of your consciousness moment to moment the most important thing?
Literally everything is an energy exchange.
The greatest realization is that you can consciously generate, cultivate, and connect to "positive" energy at all times, all moments.
Furthermore, you can extend and share with others, instantly lighting them up. An inner smile goes a long way.
theres this invisible force called resistance,
everyone knows it, everyone has given in to it
and its the very thing that takes you away from doing the things that you know are good for you
the things that you write down at 3am promising yourself you're going to start again
the things the version of you would do if you had enough courage to act beyond your fear of rejection, failure and even success
the things if you just did consistently everyday you would be fulfilled and happy
so why do we always avoid doing the things?
as someone who spent 7 years thinking I had a discipline and self worth problem, reading every self help book, building personal habit systems, coping with every astrology and numerology reading on why I'm not there yet, getting coaches, mentors, etc
its literally so simple and its not that deep
all you need is a system for clarity & a ritual to create daily momentum
and that comes from simplifying your life.
think in the 3 realms: finance, relationships, health
and set a 30 day milestones for each one,
make it feasible and measurable,
now before bed every night,
choose 1 needle mover task that will bring you closer to that 30 day milestone,
understand that nothing else matters but that one task
you do that task, your day is won and complete
what you'll notice is that after you do that 1 task,
you'll build momentum and you'll want to do more tasks.
You're now in a creative productive stream of consciousness.
Now here's the most important part:
How do you get into this stream of consciousness as quickly as possible and not procrastinate?
You have to make it low effort and easy.
Something you can so lying on ur bed or while you take a sh*t
and the way you make it easy is by creating a network of people doing the same ritual
this social factor is a straight up hack, we've evolved as social animals. Think about the most popular, powerful apps on the planet, they are all about connection.
we are designed to connect, so leverage it
every morning, post into your group chat of friends the needle moving task your committed to and 1 thing your grateful for,
it is that ret4rdedly simple to overcome procrastination
isnt the problem that people are born into societies that are operating at stages higher than their own development?
IE green (6) = consencus, harmony, acceptance
In practice (unhealthy green) = lgbtq & DEI
intention is there but execution/application is not
the standard libby snowflake is born into a green stage society with no foundation of other stages of mastery hence they experience only the shadow/unhealthy side
(why Jordan Peterson got popular as he was a voice for blue stage, cos kids are so down bad they need a parent role model to tell them to clean their room and stand up with their back straight)
(Tate = red and orange)
"To be honest..." "I'm not being judgmental but..."
You're subconsciously invalidating your own integrity before you even finish the sentence.
You don't want to offend because you seek validation, not truth cos rejection is linked to your self-worth.
You need permission to speak your truth.
Pride: The False Armor
When operating from Pride consciousness:
You don't admit failureโyou justify, rationalize, or deny it.
You craft elaborate explanations for why your failures aren't really failures.
You hide shortcomings behind accomplishments, credentials, and status.
"I don't make mistakes like others do."
Pride creates the illusion of invulnerability while secretly creating your greatest vulnerability.
It positions you as superior to feedback that could actually serve your growth.
The secret pain of Pride consciousness is that you must constantly maintain your image at the expense of your evolution.
True strength isn't found in the absence of failure, but in the courage to acknowledge it.
Pride consciousness constructs a fortress that keeps wisdom out and illusion in.
He who cannot admit failure has surrendered his greatest opportunity for transformation.