Cailey

Livin’ thru life lessons

[Cailey @QueenCail]

Writing/talking with the essay you can be very confusing and cause miscommunications. From now on the essay you will be replaced with a broader language such as “one might” or “a person could” to reduce possible misunderstandings or misinterpretations of language

[Cailey @QueenCail]

You can’t take everything so personal, that’s way too damaging to yourself

[Cailey @QueenCail]

It’s okay to take a step back and rest on that platform once in awhile

[Cailey @QueenCail]

Rule 12:
Overcome, adapt, persevere

[Cailey @QueenCail]

You need to take a moment to breath. You need oxygen, stop holding your breath and restricting yourself from reaching your full potential. If you don’t breath correctly your body is never going to relax. Remember when you’re breathing it should be your belly movin, not the chest

[Cailey @QueenCail]

Rule number 11:
Put your tools back where they came from, or else when you need them later you won’t be able to find them

[Cailey @QueenCail]

Rule number 10:
Get out of the desert

[Cailey @QueenCail]

You have to water yourself and those around you, or else everything’s gonna crinkle and fade away

[Cailey @QueenCail]

All this love in your heart and it’s time to start loving yourself baby girl

[Cailey @QueenCail]

Rule number 9:
You gotta know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to walk away, and know when to run

[Cailey @QueenCail]

Good is in quotations because there are multiple meanings to what good can be. Good can mean the healthy standard of good. It can mean what you think is good for you, or to you (taste/preference wise), even if it’s not healthy for you. Or it can mean whatever you read it as!

[Cailey @QueenCail]

Too much of anything is a bad thing, even if it’s a “good” thing

[Cailey @QueenCail]

You gotta put yourself in an environment where you can thrive. Every plant needs different care to grow and so do people. You have to be able to create that environment as well as manage it

[Cailey @QueenCail]

Now instead of both parties playing victim or falling into the victim mindset without realizing it there is open communication and flow going on in the environment

[Cailey @QueenCail]

I think another big thing that’s going on is a lot of people like to play victim without realizing it. They expect people to just understand things instead of communicating. This results in a ton of maladies

[Cailey @QueenCail]

This open and clear communication allows both parties to feel heard and eliminates more problems from snowballing. Of course this only works if all those involved genuinely care for, respect, and want to have each other in their lives