Make money and tell no one. Love and tell no one. Be kind and tell no one. Date and tell no one. Heal and tell no one. Unlearn and tell no one. Do the work and tell no one. Grow and tell no one. People love to ruin things. Don't tell people more than they need to know.
at least you showed up authentically. at least you moved with honesty. at least you were direct with how you felt. at least you communicated openly and maturely. at least you tried. at least you never reciprocated their cruel behavior. your actions are a reflection of you.
A godly woman is always doing acts of service that go unnoticed, praying for others & loving selflessly without expecting anything in return. She doesn’t need to be seen by others. She’s confident that all her unnoticed deeds on earth are noticed in heaven & that’s enough for her
Discernment is real. Yu can hear stuff that’s not being said! You can feel things and don’t even have to be in close proximity! U can detect a lie from miles away! Sometimes it feels like a blessing and a curse bcuz that third eye be awake&sometimes it be the closest people 2yu.
it’s scary the way you can kill off the love you have for someone. you just continuously remind yourself of the reality of the situation. you internalize how unfairly you were treated (even unintentionally). you do the work & then one day, you feel nothing for them. not a thing.
The law of detachment. aint nothing really yours, you gotta be comfortable with not being attached, just enjoying life for what it is and move on when it’s time.
I was taught that keeping quiet kept the peace. Until I realized whose peace is it keeping? The offender's at peace. The people who don't wanna deal with it at peace. And I in this little body am holding all of the war.
- @drthema
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
I don’t like when people turn weirdo over things that could have been solved by a simple conversation… now I don’t respect you and we will never speak again.
Mentally healthy people don't rage, play the victim or throw a tantrum of entitlement when they're met with boundaries. They just respect them. Narcissists aren't interested in healthy closure. They don't want to hear how they hurt you. They know they hurt you, and don't care.
When it starts to feel one sided, that’s your sign to go. Staying in a situation where you are unappreciated isn't called loyalty. It's called breaking your own heart. You deserve a relationship where both sides always put effort, time, and love into making things last.