unpopular opinion: the wizards crossover was shit. i didn’t even like it back then as a child bc i realized they never filmed it together. the real crossover was at the tipton hotel with hannah, raven, london, maddie, zack & cody.
I hope you find someone who naturally reaches for your hands, gently touches your legs, massages your back, plays with your hair—and makes looking at them feel like coming home.
Don’t bite me oh, but I feel like when some women say they want an intentional man, they’re not necessarily talking about money or expensive gifts. I think some women genuinely just want to see someone go out of their way to make it obvious that they want them in their lives.
The people who are mostly victims of this particular thing are the anxiously attached. Their minds keep telling them things like:
"They are pulling away."
"They do not love you anymore."
"You are too much."
"They are going to leave."
"If you do not reach out, they will forget about you."
"Something is wrong."
"You need to fix this right now."
And they believe it. They react to it. They act on it. They send the long text, make the desperate call, overcompensate, overexplain, overgive, just to feel in control again. And in doing so, they push the person further away. They create the very abandonment they were trying to prevent.
Your mind is not always telling you the truth. It is telling you what it is afraid of. And the only way to break free is to stop believing every thought that comes into your head. To pause. To breathe. To remind yourself that you are safe. That their silence is not a rejection. That their distance is not the end. That you have survived before. And you will survive again.
The people who are mostly victims of this particular thing are the anxiously attached. Their minds keep telling them things like:
"They are pulling away."
"They do not love you anymore."
"You are too much."
"They are going to leave."
"If you do not reach out, they will forget about you."
"Something is wrong."
"You need to fix this right now."
And they believe it. They react to it. They act on it. They send the long text, make the desperate call, overcompensate, overexplain, overgive, just to feel in control again. And in doing so, they push the person further away. They create the very abandonment they were trying to prevent.
Your mind is not always telling you the truth. It is telling you what it is afraid of. And the only way to break free is to stop believing every thought that comes into your head. To pause. To breathe. To remind yourself that you are safe. That their silence is not a rejection. That their distance is not the end. That you have survived before. And you will survive again.
I hate thinking "okay let me show less love" "let me not care so much" I hate that feeling. I should never have to feel that way. My purest form is caring hard and loving unconditionally.
I think being married someday is going to be one of the coolest things in the world. You get to come home to your favorite person every day, tell them the most random parts of your day, make dinner together, argue over what to watch, and slowly build an ordinary life that somehow becomes extraordinary.
Y’all mad at Chlöe for finally responding to hate comments & telling her to “act like a celebrity” but y’all are literally mean to her on every single social media platform. She knows no peace bc Y’ALL remind her everywhere daily how much you do not like her, I’d get fed up too!
I was born for romantic love, Sunday funday, quality time, lying on the chest of the person I love, spending time with my loved ones, little gestures, feeling deeply, all of it.
Tom Holland sharing a quote that said “if you have a problem with me, text me, and if you don’t have my number, you don’t know me well enough to have a problem with me” really stuck with me