My final act of love is letting you go. No calls, no texts, no checking your name. I promise you're free now, free from my need for communication, attention, effort, and hope that you'd change or care more. You can finally have the life you wanted without me.
How do people sleep peacefully after breaking someone who loved them sincerely? Someone who gave them their heart, loyalty, and trust? They knew they were causing pain and still did it. How does a person live with that? I can't understand how a human can be so cruel.
I think the biggest question is whether all of this is truly worth what might have to be sacrificed. Engfa has talent, popularity, and a long career journey to get to where he is now.
However, success isn't just about how many people know your name, but also about how you maintain the trust of those who have supported you. When an artist's decisions leave their own fans questioning, disappointed, and even questioning the support they've given them, isn't that something worth reflecting on? Fans don't have the right to dictate an artist's personal life, but they also have the right to decide whether they want to continue supporting them. Ultimately, Engfa has the right to make his own choices, but every choice has consequences.
@notmysundaybe Working with Papa Nawat for too long has made his brain go a little haywire! It seems his mouth, brain, and heart are out of syncโit's a total mess.
I admit that Charlotte isn't the best singer with the best vocal technique, while Engfa does have a better singing ability. However, an artist shouldn't be judged solely on one skill, let alone constantly compared to others. Charlotte has her own unique charm and unique qualities that make many people recognize her and want to support her. Likewise, Engfa's talent and achievements deserve to be appreciated.
However, ability and popularity aren't everything. For me, respecting fans is also an important part of an artist's journey. We can admire someone's talent without turning a blind eye to disappointing behavior. Ultimately, Charlotte doesn't have to be as great as Engfa at singing to be worthy of respect, and Engfa shouldn't always be justified just because of her talent. Both have their strengths and weaknesses, but how they appreciate the people who support their journeys also plays a part in how the public views them.
Why couldn't they wait until April of next year? At a press conference, Engfa and Charlotte announced that "Englot" has come to an end, thanking the fans and the fandom for their support all this time! The Englot journey was so beautifulโwhy couldn't it have ended on a better note?
People who have been destroyed by love no longer trust easily! It might sound exaggerated. However, the reality is that it's difficult for them to reopen a door that's been closed for so long.
These people no longer believe that anyone can love them.. For them, love no longer exists. For them, love is no longer a matter of the heart. In their perception, love is merely a gameโfull of mystery.
Being human is a never ending process.
We are never truly "Finished".
There is always something to learn, realize, improve, let go of and accept.
Today We feel like we've understood something, then life comes along with a new phase and says.. "Let's learn again, from a different perspective".
Sometimes there are people who are perfect for us to fall in love with, but not the right ones for life!
The chemistry is there, the attraction is there, the timing is there.. But when it comes to communication, responsibility, problem-solving, or the future, it turns out we're not on the same page.
A mantra to keep your mind at ease:
Let the past be the past.. Don't try to guess what hasn't happened yet. Enjoy what is right in front of you.. And let go of what you cannot control.