Just a friendly reminder because social media will have you confused.
- Men need women.
- Women need men.
- 50/50, 100/0, 70/30 is cool - DO YOU!
- A cheater will cheat on anyone.
- Being single is fine if you're happy.
- There is nothing wrong with a 9-5.
- Health is wealth.
- Social Media is not real.
I kept seeing this post on my timeline and wondered why it was trending. I zoomed in to check if they were celebrities. I couldn't recognise them. Just a woman proudly sharing her wedding photos with her husband.
Then I opened the comments and quotes. That was when it made sense.
The hate from some women was so loud. Not subtle or even disguised. Just pure resentment toward a woman who simply chose to start a family.
And it reminded me of something I strongly believe: the moment you decide to build a home, to commit, to create something sacred like family, the kingdom of darkness rises. Why? Because you are attempting something powerful.
Having a family is one of the most meaningful decisions anyone can make. It requires sacrifice, maturity, and vision. Not everyone is ready for it. Not everyone will applaud it. And honestly, not everyone will experience it.
Some women cope by convincing themselves that “marriage is not an achievement.” But deep down, many of them still long for companionship, stability, and legacy. It’s easier to dismiss what you don’t have than to admit you desire it.
The bitterness in those comments and quotes says more about the women than the bride.
To the young ones reading this: life has phases. Ambition is good. Money is good. Success is good. But don’t let the noise of the crowd make you despise what has sustained humanity for generations.
Talk to people who are older and fulfilled. Ask them what truly mattered in the end. Most will mention family long before they mention money, influence or power.
If you see someone building something beautiful, don’t curse it because you haven’t built yours yet. Your time can still come. Growth requires humility.
When drums beat in one courtyard, only the empty hut complains about the noise.
INALEGWU.
Dear Sultans,
Day 72. It’s been a long run for us all. You already know what it’s like to support Thee Sultana this season, I don’t need to go into details. I’m happy and fulfilled that we were able to stick around regardless, and even became stronger along the way. Every week was a finale, a battle against the rest of the world, and every week, a statement was made. Small army, big doings!
I don’t think anyone hypes you enough for the level of work you’ve put in for an imperfect human being like Sultana. This is just me saying this is only the beginning. It’s Day 72 and beyond from here.
Sultana asked for this fanbase, and I’m glad we were able to give her an indomitable army.
Now she’ll be leaving the #BBNaija house tonight, and all she’ll need is something to smile about when she comes up here. Let’s write her something beautiful, make cool edits and flood the timeline with the love she truly deserves, straight from the heart.
Thank you, Sultans 🫶🏽
#SultanaFarida
Sultana🥹
Today, Sultana’s younger sister had an emotional moment with Sultana at the arena
If you know how far we’ve come, the months and days, the challenges?
This was everything Sultana needed. She needed to know she had an army behind her and so much love waiting for her.
Thank you @BBNaija for this opportunity and for making Sultana meet her sister once again.
Sultans, again, hope we are ready to do this for Sultana??
🎥 @BBNaija
#SultanaFarida
#BBNaija