Great openers for today's #repsymp24: 'Mechanisms against movements...' companies' use of co-optation/repression with stakeholders, @maemcdonnell Timothy Werner @RaquelKessinger; 'Pulling apart the important nuances of firm reputations', Jeffrey Lovelace (pic) Don Lange @MAZ_PhD
This. When asking for advice, most of the time the advice giver will offer it based on their experience and objectives by default. You could ask if your goals align, you could also frame the request by explaining your goals and values to the mentor/ advice giver.
The point of seeking advice isn't to follow it blindly. It's to make sure you're thinking clearly.
People give guidance from what works for them. It may or may not apply to you.
The more their values and goals differ from yours, the more you should take it with a grain of salt.