A woman's brain cannot relax until she feels physically and emotionally safe. Alot of men don't understand how much energy women spend checking that they're safe. Providing an environment where she can turn that part of her brain off lets her truly settle into her femininity.
I’m learning to just slow down. slow down on making decisions, slow down on tryna find love, slow down on reacting & responding. not everything is a NOW thing, somethings DO take time. This time, im letting God work in & on my life in his timing.
I know it sounds crazy to most people but there ARE men out there who are 100% faithful, 100% obsessed with their significant other, 100% genuine, good, and sweet. Like it’s rare, but it’s out there.
for a lot of you, jealousy & envy are subconsciously ruling your life. once you make it conscious, accept it, & understand it, you can use it as a powerful catalyst for growth & change. i’m telling you, know thy self 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
It’s up to you if you want to change your life. It’s up to you if you want to do better. It’s up to you if you want to achieve your plans and goals. It’s up to you if you want to keep going. It’s up to you if you want to have a fulfilling life. Whatever you choose to do is a decision you make for yourself and your decisions will dictate the outcome.
Respectfully, I do not NEED a man in my life. I’m good, I pay all my bills, have a nice truck & trailer, house, horses, a GOOD ass job, & I damn sure get the shit I want done much faster than any man ever could. BUT it would be nice as hell to just have a partner in life
stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time and energy.