I love people who can put their pride aside, apologize, and actually change their behaviour. That awareness, accountability, and emotional intelligence is so attractive.
I love talking things out. So If you ever feel like you gotta shade me, move weird or do anything malicious towards me... that’s because you wanted to. It was never nothing for you to come sit and talk to me and we hash things out like adults.
your partner coming to you about something you’re doing wrong isn’t a personal attack. it’s communication. it’s a heads up. listen, fix it and do better.
Normalize not forcing connections with people who don't vibe with you. If they don’t see the value in having you by their side, don’t try to convince them.