Taurus ♉️ Virgo ♍️ Capricorn ♑️
It's OK to not be okay, you went through something traumatic. Don't regret how you showed up and for being your authentic self. Some connections are lessons that we need in life to know what we don't want or need.
Once you peep that certain friends show up for others more then they show up for you just fall back. Every friend can’t be put in the same category. Move accordingly
Ngiyakuzwa neh, however, the same level of audit you do with men. Is the same that's needed in friendships.
You can't be bending over for a person who won't do the same for you.
Friendships are tricky
List of places I won't be going this year:
• The extra mile
• Above & Beyond
• Back & forth
• Out of my way
• All out for people
• Where I’m not invited
So help me God.
virgo 🎀 taurus 🎀 capricorn
messages for 2026:
you need to make peace with the fact that you weren’t chosen. they didn’t want you. this might be a job, a lover, a friend. they weren't yours. it was not your time. rejection hurts. you’re loyal to family members, partners and friends who only want you when it’s convenient. cut all ties, choose you. however in 2026, things will be crystal clear. you will excel in your career because you will have the clarity you lacked this year, phenomenal opportunities and loads of money and happiness. in 2026 we are up!
Girl to Girl,
In 2026, prioritize your peace when choosing friendships.
If it brings chaos, it’s not for you.
If it draws you away from God or steals your peace, it’s also not for you.
If you have to beg to be in their circle, it’s not for you.
The right relationships will come with ease and peace 💛
We wake up every day and routinely plan our day. Not realising that none of that will be accomplished because it will be your last day on Earth. All of our hopes and dreams for the future may be futile because we have no control over what will happen next. Life
Since some among us have no concept of boundaries and possess the emotional intelligence of teething toddlers, please note the following Community Service Announcement. Here is what you are not going to do or ask:
1. Children’s Exam Results
You will not ask how other people’s children performed in their exams. Their academic report is not community property.
2. Body Comments
You will not comment on weight gain or weight loss. “You look good” is more than sufficient. If your tongue is itching to say more, drink water and face the wall.
3. Skin Conditions
You will not comment on someone’s skin if it’s going through the most. Breakouts are not an invitation for your analysis. You are not a dermatologist.
4. Missing Partners
You will not ask where husbands, wives, boyfriends, or girlfriends are if you don’t see them. Assume they are deceased and you missed the funeral notice. It is safer for everyone involved.
PS. Let us practise the ancient art of being decent, mature human beings. It starts by minding your own business