a lot of people struggle to let go of friends they’ve clearly outgrown and we should talk about it. a lot of us feel this undying loyalty towards them because we remember when they were there for us at our lowest once upon a time. that’s cute & everything but…
being a parent is one of the hardest jobs in this world and everyone treats it like it’s nothing. like it’s casual. like it’s just the next step on your journey of life. and this is why so many parents are bad at it and fuck up their kids. because everyone takes it lightly.
I saw a TikTok that said “If you were to write a book about your dad what would the last sentence be” and someone said “I was supposed to cry to you about lovers, I cried to lovers about you”. IM IN TEARS
@aussiemadam You’re right. And I know in these moments it doesn’t feel great right now but allow your body time to heal. You grew a whole ass human for almost a year and your postpartum phase is like the last part of your pregnancy!! Give your body grace and time🤍
The same police department that killed George Floyd killed an innocent black man yesterday inside his apartment. Minneapolis Police Officer
Brett Hankison shot & killed AMIR LOCKE YESTERDAY FEBRUARY 3rd, 2022. The police had the wrong apartment and person…
Avoiding conflict ruins relationships. The issues you have won’t go away. They'll only come back stronger, when you least want them to. Conflict avoidance is a trauma response deriving from a childhood in which conflict led to abuse. Heal so you can speak up and nurture intimacy.
That emotional unavailable person you keep letting in and out of your life is blocking your personal growth and lowering your vibrational frequency. Let them go. Not everyone is meant to be in your future. Some people are just passing through to teach you lessons in life.
@abartlow__ You’re completely valid. Soak in these sweet moments right now because they will be here sooner than you know!
And also you’re still valid for wanting that time between just the two of you and deserve it🤍 take care of your mental mama🥰
The source of anxiety lies in the future. If you can keep your mind in the present, you can let go of what you can’t control. Anxiety is a liar. You're not running out of time to manifest the life you want. Trust the wait and stop comparing your path to others.