Idk. I feel once you become a parent you gotta muster up the strength and courage from somewhere to leave unhealthy relationships. Your children should not be subjected to dealing with that.
dealing with a ngga who never think he wrong is draining as fck. no accountability, no reflection, just excuses and finger pointing. everything somebody else fault, everything a misunderstanding, everything get flipped back on you. after a while you realize you not even arguing to fix nothing… you arguing with somebody who already decided they can’t be wrong. and that sht get exhausting real quick.
NEVER TRUST A MAN WHO gets upset over your reactions to his actions! You got mad because of what he did, and now he’s mad because you reacted. Then, he tries to gaslight you by saying you’re always arguing or creating negativity. No, that’s MANIPULATION. That’s narcissistic behaviour. You don’t get to hurt people and then play the VICTIM when they call you out.
Stop dealing with people who have nobody in their life holding them accountable. Those type of people will do you wrong, justify it, and then gather a bunch of other unaccountable mfs to back them up. Next thing you know, you getting gaslit for reacting to THEIR behavior.
The biggest rule in a relationship is that no matter how mad you are at your partner, you do not go and seek someone else's attention. You stay there and make it right. Because that's your person. If you can easily go to someone else, you do not love the person you are with.
A lot of men don’t realize that emotional unavailability and poor communication are the biggest turn offs. Imagine making your woman feel crazy just for wanting your time and attention. Embarrassing.
I don’t got no more time to waste on nothing or nobody! If I’m not happy I’m out and this goes for everything down to my job. Idc nomore. I’m choosing peace over everything these days!!
WOMAN TO WOMAN: Please stop sending men long texts after they hurt you. They don't care, and nothing you say will make them feel guilty. Take your dignity back and leave.