@EBasilion Yup, all the men I’ve known who mistreat women have had the WORST relationship with their mother. When these type of men get in a relationship they take all their rage at their mother out on their partner. Every woman is a stand-in for Mommy.
@aimeeterese I don’t know why this is so difficult for people to learn. If people treat you poorly, it’s because you let them. Raise your standards and you will be treated accordingly.
@humdrummer@aimeeterese 💯 I’ve gotten to the point I can detect a Cluster B fairly quickly. Instinct and pattern recognition tell me when I’m in the presence of someone who’s phony and dishonest. How I feel around them is enough data. I don’t need more.
@aimeeterese@Realdonmiller Yup, there are men who are attracted to and seek out borderline women because borderline women are promiscuous, have poor boundaries, and low standards. BPD women are easy pickings for losers and predators.
@DeanAbbott Simple, solid counsel like this is what we need more of. There’s too much over-examining the reasons for our bad habits these days. Recognizing patterns and taking ownership is all that’s required most of the time.
@DisaffectedPod When we were young people knew what was appropriate to wear and what suited your body. If you were overweight and out of shape you did your best to conceal it - not flaunt it! Now people have no shame. No dignity. No standards. It’s a sad state of affairs.
@libriscent One doesn’t have to have been infallible for ghosting to be wrong. Most friendships/relationships go through ups and downs. People sometimes hurt one another and make mistakes, but this rarely represents the entire relationship. Most times, talking it out is better than ghosting.
@TruthSeek01011 You’re saying the government is conducting a study on how to murder its citizens? lol. You should provide the link. I’d like to see this.
@DavidPhelan3@DisaffectedPod@aimeeterese Well, he probably really was bipolar then because BPD’s are never deeply apologetic. They rarely apologize, and the rare time they do, it’s laced with rationalizations, deflections, and pity pleas.
@mmeJen@JThiel Yup, men who chronically f*ck around are shallow and lack scruples. They’re usually deeply insecure too. They aren’t just after sex - because you can get that in a relationship - they’re seeking validation. Many are narcissists using casual sex for narcissistic supply.