@FeistyKittyPie Anyway i think it’s very courageous to make this whole thread because what you’re pointing out, you see it and someone did attack you, and there’s a real logical argument here and it’s good and brave that you’re making it!! bravo! Bravo
@FeistyKittyPie Actually, the ultimate Greek tragedy of Patrick (and by extension RW bro culture at large) is that the guys who admire his tweets, because he truly doesn’t give a shit, they do in fact give a shit and due to that they’re insane like this.
@FeistyKittyPie I’m so grateful to you and Mel and psychoanalytic Twitter to help me understand this kernberg thing of, the people you have sexual feelings for, to them you have aggression. For men not in our lives by choice, this approach maybe best, humiliate them by showing them we see it.
@HeTows I’m so confused. Israelis are famous for the voice note thing. My Israeli family will send me a voice note to say, no. Or beseder. You have people who send you texts???
@yantomr4@FeistyKittyPie I mean, maybe at a very late point or developed point in the work together. Thank you guys for this amazing open source school.
@yantomr4@FeistyKittyPie Just curious, why do you hate Psychoeducation? And Kitty, do you also hate it? Do any of you guys ever explain this in any way to patients? “When you banish a tinge of awareness of xyz, you don’t get a chance to learn that it can be there and zyx curbs it”
@FeistyKittyPie Wow, thank you so much for these threads, I read Carveth but somehow, your descriptions make it all so much more real and vital and every day.
@yantomr4@reeesh24@the_mel_jar@FeistyKittyPie Interesting that's helpful, yes maybe in the end the two ideas are connected because the subject's perception of the object (its accusations against the object) could certainly be connected to the subject's own aggression and resulting guilt
@SpitzZev@HeTows He's saying this is a stupid position, because there's no such thing as a tactical Western liberal democracy, it's actually simply a win if Iran becomes a western liberal democracy and all this other stuff is nonsense. Maybe he should put a pinned post saying, I write ironicly
@AmirFraiberg@reider this reads more of phantasy, author paints all the fault in her community's pathology, for the alternative is more terrible. fairbairn said: better to be a sinner in a world ruled by god, than a saint in a world ruled by the devil. in the latter case, there is hope of redemption.
@AmirFraiberg@reider it is a very poor quality psychological analysis, to be honest. anyone working properly in that field would start by appreciating - silently or not-- if and how the object of aggression has posed a past threat, could pose a future threat to their client.