can we PLEASE stop acting like a “soft life” only come from a MAN?? 🥴 BABY you can absolutely give that life to YOURSELF 💅🏽 Buy your own flowers. Book your own trips. Heal yourself. Spoil yourself. Build your own peace.
I see why baby mothers get so mad when ppl try to come at them about not allowing the dad to pop in & out their child’s life. At a certain age they’ll start to notice you coming around & disappearing & no mother is about to put their child through that. You can’t pick and choose when you want to be a father, when you want to spend time with the baby, when you wanna show you care. Then when the mom puts a stop to the unhealthy cycle she gets all the backlash. Some bm’s aren’t bitter, they just love their child enough to not allow someone to come in & out their child’s life when they choose too. No such thing as a part time parent #Rs✔️💯