@AntiCommieBecca@LouisWoodhill@RealDianeYap Sure, but the desire for sex & intimacy is so biologically hardwired in humans, especially men, that never getting that that at all is likely to cause psychological problems. Jordan Peterson said that it takes a rare person who could live w/out it, and be okay. I agree with him.
@honeyNonABG Men should take the initiative, but women need to show some sign of interest beforehand. However, I don't think men should chase though. If I have to jump through hoops to get a woman to like me, I'm assuming she doesn't really like me. Women throw themselves at men they like.
@Aksinia00447@MeghanEMurphy Yeah, I could see that for sure. I think many men get complacent in relationships, and their wives end up "mothering" them. That's a huge libido killer for women.
I don't buy that women just became uninterested in sex.
@Romy_Holland Okay, I agree on the kids thing, but this is just demoralizing slop. Getting a relationship is primarily luck based, it doesn't mean someone is worse if they are single later. Idk why this is often said. People's circumstances are unique for why they ended up that way.
@AposematicHate@MadelaineLucyH I've said this before, I can honestly say I've never seen a woman so ugly where prioritizing fitness and health wouldn't help her find a decent man who loves her. In fact, any time I've found a woman to be unattractive, she just didn't take good care of herself.
@AposematicHate@MadelaineLucyH I don't disagree, men should hold themselves to that same standard. I would never seek out a healthy & fit woman, while simultaneously being out shape. But like I said, being healthy & fit is controllable, so take comfort in that.
What makes men attractive is out of his control.
@Romy_Holland You can find a relationship at older ages if you have your shit together. That's not a big deal.
But for kids I agree, you may be on borrowed time depending on how old you are if you're a woman. If you're an older man it's harder to find a young woman to have lots of kids with.
@LaymansTermz@deraaa310@MadelaineLucyH I feel like that's more of an online thing to be treated badly for that.
Plenty of women in those age ranges find relationships irl with men.
@LaymansTermz@MadelaineLucyH I never said it was shallow, and I don't condone men throwing temper tantrums, or worse, when rejected. I understand where that preference comes from. Although, I will say objectively that it's kind of ridiculous to reject an otherwise great man because he's not a few in. taller.
@LaymansTermz@dailybitchdiary@MadelaineLucyH I'm saying that to avoid an absolute claim. Weird, dangerous, or disingenuous men exist. I'll admit, you have a point that I'm not a woman who has dated men. However, I'd like to think I have a pretty standard/rational male perspective on relationships that most normal men share.
@LaymansTermz@dailybitchdiary@MadelaineLucyH I'm not saying it's untrue entirely, but I don't believe that's the norm. Most men are normal, and just want a woman who'd genuinely like them.