I don't give a fuck to hurt you. This isn't about you or me. It's about him. It's about the man he deserves to have, see, and grow to be. I'll always leave a door, but you gotta find the right key on your own this time.
Narcissists mirror your qualities, creating a fake personality to resemble yours to draw you in, making you feel understood and related to.
Rule of thumb, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Important ones like: how do they get along with their family, what are your goals in life, and how would our relationship fit into those dreams, and what was the hardest lesson you ever learned in life?
The purpose is to get them to talking, not you so much because if they’re a narcissist, they’ll attempt to make you feel comfortable enough to spill out your whole world to them, and not because they care, but so that they can use it to their advantage of manipulating you, and mirroring those qualities.
Don’t give out too much deep information at one time, don’t tell it all. Not everyone deserves access to you like that, only those who have proven their loyalty, value, and love to you, and that takes years.
I’ve noticed I don’t have an issue communicating. My issue is people’s responses . It’s the lack of accountability and the one-sided perceptions that I cannot tolerate.
Idc, you are a fucked up human being if someone is going through a hard time and you take that time to make it worse. Like I just won’t ever forget who gave me hard a time while I was going through one.