At this point. women need to start INITIATING SEX FAR MORE THAN MEN.
For YEARS you told men:
DON'T ASSUME SHE LIKES YOU.
DON'T READ INTO IT.
DON'T THINK A SMILE MEANS YES.
DON'T THINK FLIRTING MEANS SHE WANTS YOU.
DON'T THINK THAT DRESS MEANS ANYTHING.
OK. We heard you. Loud and clear.
But then you STILL expect the man to walk up, risk his job, risk his reputation, risk being called a creep, and make the first move?
Make it make sense.
What do you want him to say exactly?
"Hello. I would like to fuck you. May I have your written permission???
Or:
"I find you attractive. Do I have your explicit, enthusiastic, ongoing consent to attempt to make love to you?"
Read that out loud. Does that sound like human attraction to you? Does that sound sexy enough to get you WET?
Attraction has ALWAYS been one person taking a chance. Shooting their shot. Making a move.
The WHOLE point is what happens AFTER. If she's not into it, she says no, she pulls away, and a real man STOPS. Respects it. Leaves. Done. That's where consent lives.
But if yall are going to treat the MERE ACT of a man making an unwanted move not forcing, not harassing, just SHOOTING HIS SHOT and getting it wrong as "creepy" "predatory" "threatening"...
Then YOU need to start making the first move. So many men have been in serious trouble because they made the first move.
You cannot demand that men initiate AND criminalize initiation when you're not attracted to the guy.
You can't demand zero guessing, zero assumptions, crystal-clear, lawyer-approved intentions, and then still expect MEN to be the ones to guess.
If you want no guessing, then it’s simple. Say it with your chest:
"I want you."
"Come kiss me."
"I want to FUCK you."
Simple. Clear. No confusion. No HR report needed.
Apparently when you win Lotto, they don’t even send a message to tell you, you just have to make sure you check the numbers and claim the money before the due date. Or else your money is gone. 😭💔
Polygamy is the instinct of men.
Hypergamy is the instinct of women.
A woman would rather monopolize the highest-value man she can get in monogamy.
But if she cannot monopolize him, she would rather share the man she truly wants than settle for a man she considers beneath her, or have no man at all.
That is the contradiction:
Her monogamy wants exclusivity.
Her hypergamy wants the best man available.
And when those instincts collide,
hypergamy overpowers monogamy.
Female hypergamy enables male polygamy.
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Before lunch, Adv Chaskalson summarised his interpretation of the chronology of events regarding the Putco saga to Sibanyoni.
“These seem to me to point to a single process where Putco is being placed under pressure to sell, and to sell to Taxi Choice.” #MadlangaCommission
Consider having 2 phones neh, then download your banking apps onto one of the phones. All your credit card accounts, home loan, savings etc must be on that phone. Leave that phone at home whenever you go out.
Do your banking after hours when you get home.
On your 2nd phone, have another banking app like Discovery or Capitec and transfer like R3k into that account...or less. You know your emergencies.
If one stupid day you get robbed and forced to transfer money to these fools, then you know they can only access what's in your Discovery or Capitec account.
Fetched this hun from Randburg, the drop off is in CBD, we get to CBD she then says she’s going to Midrand, all this time awuboni asiyi ngase Midrand, these mistake happen all the time buh come on 😭 go outside touch the grass and be familiar with your surroundings
@eNCA But there's something about people from limpopo. They're everywhere now like seriously. And they came in numbers that seem suspiciously organized. Even in North West departments and security companies its majority limpopians
The City of Johannesburg says it has resolved an asset attachment issue with the Sheriff of the High Court. The assets that had been attached have since been returned to the City. The municipality’s Thuso House customer service centre was forced to close after the metro failed to settle an outstanding debt. Tune in to #eNCA, channel #DStv403
I have a question for @PresidencyZA
When police arrest crinimals, is it effective for them to arrest criminals peacefully? No intimidation, no use of force whatsoever?
While I support a peaceful strike, and I also believe that criminals should be treated as criminals
Against illegal immigration. This will boost the living conditions of many young south africans.
We beg you Mr President not to only deploy security companies to suppress South Africans expressing their frustration but to enforce and ensure that all illegal immigrants