Recently divorced. Have lived a long life in that I grew up in a society where being virtuous was easier than being a wh*re. To younger generation: There's hope
Modern marriages (even most Christian ones) suffer from being undersexed, often leading to a dead bedroom.
Isn’t it a grave sin to deny your husband what you’ve promised at the altar?
And if wives deny sex, can they really make a surprised picachu face when their husbands find another outlet for their sexual needs?
Masturbation, porn, infidelity etc.
A lot of it stems from being rejected sexually.
Women can point fingers all they like and play the blame game.
But unless they deliver CONSISTENTLY what they promised WILLINGLY, especially Christian wives, then they cannot act surprised when husbands don’t keep their part of the promise.
The agreement is broken.
It’s disfunction against dysfunction.
Sin against sin.
@tardwife4life@revenant_MMXX You give example after example of our forefathers’ practical wisdom.
It seems they found the answers to all societal problems.
I’m taken aback.
And we used think that we modern people are the smartest in human history!
Oh what hubris!
I've decided to start publishing essays from mutuals on my subtack. This is the first, from @tardwife4life -- a great essay on how "modernity" is destroying chemistry between the sexes.
You can read it here:
https://t.co/9QXFMsLeSl
@natusanonymity@cloneristic Yours is a much better advice 🤝
As long as you’re getting something tangible out of it (fun or whatever) then yeah, go for it.
But going through the motions just for the sake of it, while you despise every minute of it, makes no sense.
Find a different Game to play.
This! This right there!
The is the single best explanation for this modern phenomenon of Rejected Intimacy in a relationship.
It really means that the relationship is over.
Just like a plane can still fly on the force of inertia, while the engines are dead.
But it’s doomed to crash.
Jump out early and cut your losses.
@LizzieMarbach How very un-Christian of you.
Don’t the marriage vows state:
«Until death do us part» ?
Not porn or even cheating, however unethical it is.
I’m with @rob_avis_ramble on this, they really get the time-tested gist of traditional Christian marriage.
Tak dużo tu kreteńskich komentarzy pod Pani wpisem, że aż się wypowiem.
Absolutnie ma Pani rację.
Byłem w przez długi okres w związku z kobietą o kilkanaście lat ode mnie młodszą.
Bardzo często ona podkreślała jak dobrze jej było z dojrzałym mężczyzną.
Na mnie też jej młodość bardzo dobrze wpływała.
Oboje dbaliśmy o siebie.
To czemu się rozpadło?
W skrócie: wpływ mediów i psiapsiułek.
Nagle ona też chce więcej drogich wakacji, ona tez chce imitować to co widzi na Instagramie.
Aż okazało się ze jednak nie mamy tych samych wartości.
The rest is history.
@medieval_bops Which is a pity, because you gained fame/notoriety by telling the unvarnished truth.
You became a force for change.
From what I gather, you try to warn the younger generations not to make the same mistakes.
The hate and the vitriol you received only confirms you hit a nerve.
@medieval_bops@pasturecraft Well, your mom had good intentions.
She felt like she didn’t get to enjoy her party years.
Did you party in your 20s?
And how do you feel about it looking back?
(Asking in good faith 🙌)