I had an ex. We broke up some years back . We were in a relationship for 4 years. I left him because I don’t feel the spark anymore.
Although he doesn’t want to, he had no choice.
I blocked him. One night he messaged me using a different account.
He asked if I was doing well, and if I had moved on already.
He also told me that he have been struggling a lot with his mental health since we broke up.
And my honest reaction? I really didn’t give a fvck.
I often overplay my position in people's lives... I used to think it was because I had such a big giving heart, but now I'm understanding I lack boundaries. I'm always going above and beyond for those I love and when it's not returned I find myself in my feelings
I'll remove myself before I allow anger to consume me ever again. I like to love. I like to laugh. I like to be happy. So if I gotta distance myself to keep things that way, I will.
The best decision I ever made was to be quiet. I have nothing to prove. I'm done explaining myself, done convincing anyone of my worth, and done fixing what I didn't break. I refuse to fight for a spot in anyone's life. If you see my value, great. If you don't, that's on you. I'm not forcing anyone to appreciate me, respect me, or treat me right. That's a choice they have to make on their own. Just lessons and a future that no longer includes people who took me for granted
There are lot of lessons here
But “I will sleep with one hookup girl”
Listen to that part well
Women be very careful !!!
Especially you that you are quick to sell your body
Compares you to other men. If she says things like "My ex used to do this" "Why can't you be like this man" she will cheat on you when she has the chance to if she hasn't already.