Condom sex is hotter because it humiliates the bottom... The bottom is denied the pleasure of the seed and must watch his reward be released into plastic and thrown away.. The condom not only creates a physical barrier between the cock and the hole, but an emotional barrier too
Being a gay man versus a gay guy are two entirely different concepts… gay man is an identity, gay guy is a mental mindset. Women can be gay guys if they live life with an appropriate joie de vivre