This developing story about Dario's failed communications with the White House confirms everything I've ever believed about the enormous power of the Sales Chad.
You can be the smartest, most hard working, well-meaning guy around, but if you can't get people to like you, it's all for nothing.
When the time comes to send one of your own to meet inside the Halls of Power, you don't send the Geek Squad. You must send the affable, beer-drinking, golf-loving Sales Chad.
It literally doesn't matter if he understands the product half as well as everyone else. You send him. It's what he was put on Earth to do.
I’d rather hangout with a NYC nepo baby with a trust fund or go fishing with a redneck who rants about how the moon landing was fake than mingle with SF striver types. One of the most insufferable groups of people on earth.
Omg! 😆 mathematics?! At a party??? 😳🤯 Woah. You guys are supposed to be getting drunk and dancing! That is SO random and quirky 🤣🩷 it seems like no matter the environment… you guys are always focused on the smart things!!
She dumped me last night.
Not because I don't listen.
Not because I'm always on my phone.
Not even because I forgot our anniversary (twice).
But because,
in her exact words:
"You only pay attention to the parts of what I say that you think are important."
I stared at her for a moment and realized...
She just perfectly described the attention mechanism in transformers.
Turns out I wasn't being a bad boyfriend. I was being mathematically optimal.
See, in conversations (and transformers), you don't give equal weight to every word. Some words matter more for understanding context. Attention figures out exactly HOW important each word should be.
Here's the beautiful math:
Attention(Q, K, V) = softmax(QK^T / √d_k)V
Breaking it down:
Q (Query): "What am I looking for?"
K (Key): "What info is available?"
V (Value): "What is that info?"
d_k: Key dimension (for scaling)
Think library analogy:
You have a question (Query). Books have titles (Keys) and content (Values). Attention finds which books are most relevant.
Step-by-step with "The cat sat on the mat":
Step 1: Create Q, K, VEach word → three vectors via learned matrices W_Q, W_K, W_V
For "cat":
Query: "What should I attend to when processing 'cat'?"
Key: "I am 'cat'"
Value: "Here's cat info"
Step 2: Calculate scoresQK^T = how much each word should attend to others
Processing "sat"? High similarity with "cat" (cats sit) and "mat" (where sitting happens).
Step 3: Scale by √d_kPrevents dot products from getting too large, keeps softmax balanced.
Step 4: SoftmaxConverts scores to probabilities:
"cat": 0.4 (subject)
"sat": 0.3 (action)
"mat": 0.2 (location)
"on": 0.1 (preposition)
"the": 0.1 (article)
Step 5: Weight valuesMultiply each word's value by attention weight, sum up. Now "sat" knows it's most related to "cat" and "mat".
Multi-Head Magic:Transformers do this multiple times in parallel:
Head 1: Subject-verb relationships
Head 2: Spatial ("on", "in", "under")
Head 3: Temporal ("before", "after")
Head 4: Semantic similarity
Each head learns different relationship types.
Why This Changed Everything:
Before: RNNs = reading with flashlight (one word at a time, forget the beginning)
After: Attention = floodlights on entire sentence with dimmer switches
This is why ChatGPT can:
Remember 50 messages ago
Know "it" refers to something specific
Understand "bank" = money vs river based on context
The Kicker:Models learn these patterns from data alone. Nobody programmed grammar rules. It figured out language structure just by predicting next words.
Attention is how AI learned to read between the lines.
Just like my therapist helped me understand my focus patterns, maybe understanding transformers helps us see how we decide what matters.
Now if only I could implement multi-head attention in dating... 🤖
Still waiting for "scaled dot-product listening" to be invented.
You have no idea how degenerate and hedonistic things are about to get. For all of time the floodwaters of human sin and debauchery have just barely been kept at bay by the harsh consequences of our indulgence on the ones we love.
Given a simulacra and the chance to “sin without sinning” we will plunge into depths that would make the average denizen of Gemmorah blush.
These harmless indulgences and victimless crimes will poison our minds beyond repair. We will plunge deeper into the depths of our own fantasies; the most shocking taboos simulated in vivid detail will become casual acts of simple diversion on a Wednesday afternoon.
And on Thursday morning we’ll carry a little bit of ourselves out from the fantasy and into reality. Bit by bit reality becomes rewritten into our fantasies until the people cry out, “enough! We are poisoned!”
The perverse pleasure of breaking the taboo will fade once the taboo vanishes in a society where everything is permitted. People will begin to realize it was never forbidden because they wanted it; they wanted it because it was forbidden.
In the harsh light of day, left with nothing but the consequences of their overwhelming darkness manifested, they will recoil from their own pleasure, and the pendulum will reach its zenith and begin its long swing back towards dignity and decorum.
By then, we can only hope it’s not too late. That the decedent values of casual deception, cruelty, and dishonor justified only by their ability to produce an orgasm haven’t already been immutably written into a cold machine god or an undying race of no-longer-human humanoids.
In other words: lock in or you’re gonna get cooked.
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Every single person here: the person at the door, the people waiting, and the people you see in the back, are all attempting to heal some weird high school trauma where they were not the popular kid
And it’s extremely fucking weird
> new quirky private school with revolutionary teaching style and good test results
> ask if it's pedagogy or selection
> they look confused
> send detailed diagram explaining which schools are pedagogy and which schools are selection
> "it's a good school sir"
> it's selection
one of the surprising things of going to an ivy league is the sheer number of ppl who had 1550 SAT but uncritically follow the path laid by their parents
technical ability is totally orthogonal to agency
Over the next decade Silicon Valley will replace blue and white collar workers w/ AI and outsource more jobs overseas. Truckers, designers, engineers, lawyers, and far more. Power will flow to the dozen tech overlords standing next to Trump at his inauguration. Ominous optics.