Avoidant style and poor conflict resolution is growing to be the major reason for divorces and break ups. People wanting to rather ignore than address the issues head on
I wonder cos it just seems everyone is mad… can’t you just see this is something two of you should do together without judging the other person when they have a shot coming. Y’all just want someone to do your bidding and call it love… absolutely preposterous
Every argument is a breakup. Every conversation is leading to you being tired of the relationship. Every time there’s an issue like, “you’re insecure, controlling and manipulative”… RUN
Truth is too many people are looking for saviors and too many people have the “savior’s complex” and they don’t even know that’s not a healthy dynamics for a relationship. Find yourself, heal yourself and don’t burden someone who wants to love with that responsibility