Rocky3642

#survivor #silencednomore #rightsofwomenandchildren #makingchanges #fightingforchange #EXPOSINGTHECORRUPTION #STOPLEGALABUSE #FAMILYCOURT #THEHARMREPORT #DARVO

[Rocky3642 @Rocky3642]

This one is not just #FAMILYCOURT related, but for anyone who has experienced #socialservices including #MentalHealth #SEN #OlderAdults or any other aspect.

[Rocky3642 @Rocky3642]

Petition for harsher sentences for perpetrators of domestic abuse - Sign the Petition! https://t.co/Kpnnc82rdM via @UKChange

[Rocky3642 @Rocky3642]

Sadly, this story is almost a complete mirror of my own, aside from my ex's ability to control my finances after I escaped 💔 Alicia thinks she will be killed by her controlling ex. She says police won’t listen until ‘there’s a dead body’ https://t.co/TyPEtESvfn

[Rocky3642 @Rocky3642]

Implement Domestic Violence Perpetrators Registry Nationwide - Sign the Petition! https://t.co/OPtsCD8apS via @UKChange

[Rocky3642 @Rocky3642]

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[Monica Ciardi @jailed4speech]

i am ORDERED to take this down while the abuser retains custody so she can be assaulted regularly and ZERO CRIMINAL CHARGES FILED AGAINST THE ABUSER. help me please. she is special needs. FREE SPEECH IS ALIVE AND WELL. @TheFIREorg @TBIJ @ShannonJoyRadio @ACLUNJ @WSJ @AmyPolacko

[WeAreLegion ❤️ ♤ 🌈☮️ 🇬🇧🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 @1Soloneo]

@cherylcorless41 No one can fully protect their children from #SocialWorkers when they get their claws in, best interests of themselves & their managers. Logic & common sense goes out of the window, factor in many are cate experienced themselves only add to the bias.

[Rocky3642 @Rocky3642]

@cherylcorless41 💔💔💔

[PEEPSA 🦋💜 (PREVENT EDUCATE ERADICATE PSA) @SarahTaylo89428]

There's nothing 'family' about family court.
It's a ruthless business, making money out of harming the vulnerable who are seeking support and protection.

[Rocky3642 @Rocky3642]

With all forms of Wtaf!! Are we just freely admitting they're all not fit to practice then, & computers are smarter? Tbf, I've more faith in AI than anything registered with @SocialWorkEng https://t.co/qS3HgXff9P

[Shadows of Control @shadows_control]

After leaving an abusive relationship, many survivors experience post-separation abuse, where the abuser seeks revenge. Tactics often include harassment, smear campaigns, or even using children or legal systems to continue their manipulation. #PostSeparationAbuse

[Fighting for Justice for DA victims and Equality @jadewelshy]

Why does the family court keep retraumatising victims.

They know perfectly well what they are doing.

The shame that victims feel having their entire medical history opened to everyone, including their perpetrator. Their trauma therapy records opened to their perpetrator.

Their abuse laid out bare.

To be told we don't care about your abuse.
It's not relevant to your child.

#FamilyCourt #FamilyCourtScandal

[Fighting for Justice for DA victims and Equality @jadewelshy]

I believe the appeal costs need to be laid firmly at the judges door.

Hit them where it hurts.

Apply a sanction make them answer questions publicly.
if they make a judgement like this again, they get struck off.

Where Cafcass are involved the same should be applied depending on their recommendations.

I'm done with the whole they are normally sensible and reasonable.

No they aren't.
This is day in and day out in family court and we've damn well had enough.
No sane person would be making these orders.

[Amanda Against Abuse @AmandaAgainstDA]

My only contact with my children is through their phones. This week, every call has been filled with upset and arguments over who I should talk to, who I should play with, and what game we should play—except for last night.

Last night, my son didn’t respond to messages. He wasn’t on the game we usually play together, but I could hear him in the background of my daughter’s call. I suspect his phone and Xbox have been taken away. Why? Because I’ve heard the abuser shouting he would do so over the last few days.

The irony is heartbreaking—the very thing he accused me of when I set tech limits in my own home, he’s now doing as punishment. And in doing so, he’s cut off my only means of communicating with my son.

My heart is shattered. The damage this will cause is immense.

#Abuse never ends—for me, or for them.

#coercivecontrol #darvo #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #destructionofmothers
#EndAbuse #ProtectChildren #FamilyCourtCrisis #familycourt

[Amanda Against Abuse @AmandaAgainstDA]

My good deed for today is sharing this with you @MyCafcass

You are welcome.

[Amanda Against Abuse @AmandaAgainstDA]

In February, I spoke to CAFCASS for around 50 minutes, the call concluding before the schedule time. They requested all of my evidence, so I submitted hundreds of pages of medical history and other documentation, and answered countless follow-up questions via email. That was the last time I had any direct communication with them.

From that point on, the CAFCASS officer embarked on a six-month campaign of destruction against me. Her lies, ignorance, accusations, deceit, and sheer contempt for me knew no bounds. She mocked my autism, cast doubt on my NHS diagnosis, dismissed me being a victim of domestic abuse, and fabricated a wildly false and worsening personal account of my life while contradicting herself in every statement. She failed in her role as guardian by supporting both the school and my ex in their medical neglect of my children, and had the audacity to claim she had "worked extensively with the family."

Her lies haunt me. I now suffer panic attacks because of the damage / trauma she has caused. Every court hearing brought a new, shocking accusation—just as we entered the room. First, I was labeled a flight risk. Then, she accused me of Fabricated or Induced Illness (FII). Later, she dropped that claim but instead branded me as emotionally harmful. This “experiment” of hers of removing children from my care, originally intended to last a few weeks, dragged on for six months, with her doubling down on every baseless accusation as they were systematically disproven.

She’s the reason I’ve questioned whether life is even worth living. If her statements are true, maybe my children really *would* be better off without me. Maybe my family, my husband, would all be better off too. According to her, I’m violent, toxic, and more vile than the scum at the bottom of her shoe. Yet nothing she has said has been proven.

She had no problem alienating me. She ignored black-and-white evidence, endorsed cruel experiments on my children, and perpetuated lies fed to her by my abuser. She didn’t even bother to fact-check either the abuser or the school’s claims. She led a complex strategy meeting, and her very first statement was a blatant lie about something that happened five years ago—something she wasn’t even around for and that I had already corrected with her 3 years ago.

She has mocked me, coerced me, abused me, with no regard for my declining mental health, my humanity, and my worth. She put me on an unattainable pedestal of blame, while my ex—with no evidence, no statements, and a casual dismissal of his own abusive behavior—is painted as some kind of hero. He’s endorsed, admired, emboldened, while his incriminating statements and actions are completely ignored.

Tonight, I woke from a horrific nightmare—over two months since the court hearing, and seven months since I last spoke to her. I’m in full panic mode, terrified of someone who isn’t even near me, my mind racing and frozen at the same time. My heart rate has only now slowed, 40 minutes after waking, but I know I won’t sleep again tonight.

This is what her lies have done to me. #cafcass #MentalHealthCrisis #coercion #victimblaming #victimshaming #bias #enablingabuse #safeguardingfailure #panicattack #anxiety #trauma #institutionalgaslighting #institutionalabuse

[Rocky3642 @Rocky3642]

@AmandaAgainstDA Have you checked her swe registration? I was treated. A woman I met twice, who lied constantly, made my son hate her & refuse to speak to her, almost cost me my babies, then backed out if the case altogether when I slammed her with her legal obligations. She's not registered🤬

[Lorraine Read @read_lorra14618]

@AmandaAgainstDA The trauma caused is both inhumane and indicates significant failures on her part

Did you submit a complaint to SWE to highlight these breaches in SWE Code of Practice,Children's Act, GDPR, Human Rights Act, UN Rights of the Child

It amounts to gross misconduct in public office

[. @orchid2317]

@1Soloneo @AforChildren Absolutely horrendous that like they don't give a shit about the kids its just easy money for them legal child trafficking