So.. when it comes to sexual NO.. pasangala educate pannanum.. equally.. when it comes to love.. girls should be educated to analyse the love beyond the family and social factors... I believe guys genuinely love would accept a logical NO... n/n
This thread is awesome Priya.. I agree with 90% of it.. but intha tweet la neenga portraying love pathi sollum pothu.. I had some questions.. sexual a No is a No.. I can accept.. even if it was from a wife or a call girl.. 1/n
Another big problem, Culture matters too.
Films, songs, television, and stories shape what people see as normal long before they encounter these situations themselves.
For decades, popular culture across India and much of the world has romanticised persistence after rejection. It has portrayed women's refusals as obstacles rather than boundaries. It has taught generations that "no" is often the beginning of a NEGOTIATION. That is not harmless storytelling.
It creates mental scripts.
It makes entitlement feel romantic and coercion feel normal.
Creators, writers, directors, and lyricists need to stop presenting "no means try harder" as love.
It isn't charming.
It is a rehearsal for violating boundaries.
Audiences should be willing to call this out instead of dismissing it as convention or nostalgia. (7/n)
Ipdi situation la.. obviously a guy who genuinely loves would try to make her understand his love towards her.. if a girl says a valid reason for a NO.. then your point is correct... 3/n
When it comes to love proposals.. in an Indian cultural background.. the girls's "No" do not have a valid logic most of the times.. parents kaga bayanthu.. society kaga bayanthu.. guy a pathi onnume therinjuka kooda try pannama No solluranga... 2/n