this man really said “nah, i think you’re still mad..” and then ripped the covers & my shorts off of me, to go down. how tf am i even supposed to argue back 🙄🤤🫠
fear of abandonment is a really tough thing to overcome. if someone has left or shut you down coldly in a moment of raw vulnerability, it’s so easy to internalise this and believe they will do it again, or that other people will do it. unlearning this is difficult, it takes time.