Pernah dampingin korban yang mata kirinya udah hitam dan dahinya benjol sebesar kepalan tangan ke kantor polisi buat laporin suaminya. Belum jelasin ngalamin marital rape, baru nyebut kata "suami" aja udah dibilang lebih baik dibicarakan kembali karena kasihan anak2 🙂
Tapi bukannya kalo dalam Islam sendiri sebenarnya hukum aborsi itu gak 100% dilarang?
- Boleh, sebelum roh ditiup ke janin
- Boleh, 40 hari pertama kehamilan.
- Boleh, jika membahayakan nyawa sang Ibu
- Boleh, jika lebih banyak keburukan dibandingkan kebaikannya.
tapi gw beneran penasaran.
kalo gw cut off seseorang pure karena gw nggak ngerasa nyambung sama dia, lalu dia ngerasa left out, tanpa gw spreading hate ke siapapun ya, gw silently making distance.
does that make me a bully?
이건 내 친구 얘긴데ㅋㅋ
남친이 결혼 얘기하면서 그러더래.
“집값이랑 생활비는 무조건 반반 해야지.
요즘 누가 남자가 다 부담해?”
그래서 친구가 물어봤대.
“그럼 가사랑 육아도 반반이야?”
남친이 잠깐 생각하더니
“그건 여자가 더 잘하지 않냐?”
친구가 어이없어서 다시 물어봄.
“그럼 애 성은?”
“아빠 성.”
“명절은?”
“시댁 먼저 가는 게 맞지.”
“집안일은?”
“여자가 좀 더 하는 게 자연스럽고.”
친구가 한참 듣다가 물었대.
“근데 돈은 왜 반반인데?”
그러니까 남친이
“요즘 시대가 그렇잖아.”
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
돈에는 시대가 바뀌었고
집안일에는 전통이 살아있음.
생활비는 선진국
가사는 조선시대
육아는 여성의 본능
애 성은 부계 전통
명절은 시댁 우선.
이 남자한테 ‘양성평등’이란
내가 부담해야 하는 건 반으로 줄이고
여자가 해오던 건 그대로 유지하는 것인가 봄.
공평한 게 아니라
자기한테 유리한 부분만 현대화한 거임.
이 정도면 결혼관이 아니라
‘남자에게 유리한 것만 골라 업데이트한 전통문화’ 아니냐ㅋㅋㅋ
⚠️ TW: sexual misconduct / unwanted sexual advances
GUYS PLEASE READ THIS THREAD.
Nora lagi share pengalaman kakak dan abang iparnya yang lagi honeymoon di VERTU Hotel Harmoni Jakarta, and honestly… this is so concerning.
Mereka datang ke spa bareng, tapi reportedly dipisahkan ke ruangan yang berbeda dan sang suami ditawarin sexual massage / “happy ending”. Pas mereka complain ke management, awalnya pihak hotel minta maaf dan mengakui kalau hal tersebut nggak seharusnya terjadi.
Tapi setelah mereka bilang mau check out lebih awal, responsnya reportedly berubah. Mereka malah dibilang kalau hal seperti itu “normal” dan nggak bisa dapat refund. The only thing they were offered was a 90-minute massage???
LIKEEEEEE???? excuse me 😭
Mereka bahkan baru pertama kali datang ke Indonesia setelah 12 tahun, dan this happened during their honeymoon.
I really hope pihak hotel mau take this seriously and properly address what happened. Kalau emang kejadiannya seperti yang diceritakan, this is absolutely not okay.
Please read the full thread, hear their side of the story, and help amplify this so more people are aware. 🤍
MY INDONESIAN GIRLIES!!! I need help spreading this story because VERTU HOTEL HARMONI JAKARTA refused to take accountability for it. So I might as well share the story so everyone knows and aware of how shady their staffs are.