Is it worth going to the parade tomorrow?
Probably not.
But in 20 years when I look back at it I won’t be able to look myself in the mirror saying “I didn’t go to the biggest parade in the history of sports cuz I couldn’t carry a bag and had to pee”
the two R’s
1. range: their personality isn’t limited by stereotypes or expectations. they can move thru their totality e.g. tattooed biker who loves ballet, soft spoken librarian who does MMA, vegan yogi who collects guns
2. relaxation: their bodies are at ease and open. they
“If I had three lives I’d marry you in two and in that other life; that slightly slower, dimmer one I probably would’ve been a writer. Sat up in a corner trying to pen you into existence. Not knowing you but still knowing I was missing something”