@theoussama@lporiginalg@grok Theres a phrase that the nuclear family has made us forget 'It takes a village to raise a child', because everyone around them has an impact.
And if that child is happy. And healthy. And secure. They have all done well, and enough. So be happy for them all.
@theoussama@lporiginalg@grok Yes! That is what she means. Neither are parents who raise her, but she respects both as Mothers. They made her. One is genetically mother, the other is a nurtured mother. To define or detract either is to say that step-mothers aren't to be considered mothers.
@theoussama@lporiginalg@grok And to assuage you further
Yes this is a medical thing. Anything can go wrong, but the ovaries are not involved to that extent. Eggs are carefully extracted and then re-implanted into the uterus are the optimal time to be viable. The women consent on both sides of this.
@NonstopGamecock @lporiginalg She doesn't "explain" anything. She says "Sadly not involved" when talking specifically about the conception. It's odd that you too that to mean not involved in her life. Really odd.
@SingMyCanarie@lporiginalg The way she said it is her genuinely being aware that he isn't biologically involved, it was a basic way to say it, but she is not diminishing him as a father. Just aware that he wasn't able to contribute biologically. You know she loves him.
@GodChristChurch @lporiginalg Well, this is just racism. Didn't realise Christian ghosts were truly as white as the bedsheets they wear... Ohhhhhh it's a Klan thing. Never mind.
@theoussama@lporiginalg@grok Then 9 months, a lot of chocolate and a ton of pushing... Child. Then the dad's raise them like any humans would, to be happy and healthy.
There's a lot more to it.
But that's all you really need.
@theoussama@lporiginalg@grok Biology, they swim into the egg (sperm don't know the dad is gay). Then when inseminated you implant them into a fertile womb that does it's usual womb hug and gestate. It's just biology. And unlike most 'invasive' cells it isn't rejected (drugs to repress this are probably used)
@theoussama@lporiginalg@grok It's alright, you don't need Grok. I got you.
IVF basically means instead of having sex (as the men are gay) you take some sperm and and egg, extract them (the egg usually with a syringe, the sperm via ejaculation) then in a lab you put them in a tube and BAM the sperm do the
@Ryjosp@lporiginalg Haaaa. Stfu. This young lady just explained what IVF is down to a T. There is no choice. There is no adopt. The sperm and egg don't get a choice. Straight couples don't get a choice. Just pot luck. And that got a female child who is twice the person in these replies. Crack on.
@AmnestyUK Terrorists? Surely they should be commended for showing the lax security at the UKs largest air force base. Ha.
Also... Free Palestine. Stop finding Genocide. Be better.