To my Arewa girls notice how conversations that should address women’s pain become discussions about women’s endurance.
Your feelings, health, and dignity are secondary. The man is rarely questioned; the woman carries the shame.
Once you see a married woman with HIV, chances are she got it from her husband. Utterly unfair. The husband sure didn't get it from sharing sharps.
To her, she's struck by a two edged sword; betrayal and a lifetime of affliction. Both sides striking at the same time. The pain!
Kana zaune zaka dinga ganin reasons din da suka saka feminism yake raising a Arewa and why young women are very disinterested in marriage… sai dai in you are dishonest to yourself.
As a woman in Nigeria, learning to decenter age is important; otherwise, you’ll constantly be at the mercy of men and male centered women who use it to police and pressure women
Madina has followed up on so many stories about insecurity, she has gone to the frontlines and risked herself by asking powerful people dangerous questions. What we won’t do, is downplay her amazing work as a journalist.
@Maxajee@Abba_SZN Man cheated on his wife by engaging in adultery and you guys are blaming the wife for reacting instead of shaming the man.
His punishment under sharia law is getting stoned to death.
Put this energy on the insecurity happening in Nigeria.
Rich kids being able to do art for a living may be a reflection of their privilege but it seems to me like a reflection of the fact that a human that doesn't have to worry about money will often choose art. everyone is an artist until rent is due. i wish we all had that right
@Iam_Musteey A regular book addict would have read at least 20 fiction books in a year, exposing themselves to different themes and vocabularies. And as a result, they learn subconsciously.
@Iam_Musteey Women are mostly avid readers. From thrillers, mysteries to romance. Or maybe the kind of music they listen to contributes also. Before you see one man that reads, you will see like 5 girls. Infact some men who claim to read may have only read 5 self help books all their lives.
@JordizzleJ I’ve been on my phone since I started. And I was really trying to watch a movie to relax. I find it weird but I normally love things Jlo is in.