It’s crazy because if you don’t say anything people really think you don’t see nothing like?? I don’t need the validation to speak about it but I see you and I’m moving accordingly.
most times, i’m less mad about the actions that hurt me & more mad about the principle behind those actions. what belief or value system were you upholding that led you to act in a way that caused me & my loved ones harm? how long have you believed these things were harmless?
Being with someone who is fluent in your love language so you don't have to spend a lifetime translating your heart is a whole different kind of intimacy.