Dulu pernah kehujanan pas lagi jalan, tanpa pikir panjang gw langsung bawa mereka neduh dibawah gorong2 BSD 😂
alhamdulillah sekarang udah gaperlu kehujanan lagi soalnya di qatar kan jarang ujan 😁
⚠️TW // PENYEKAPAN dan PENGANIAYAAN BRUTAL‼️
Ini jadi pelajaran sangat penting buat kaum hawa. Lebih baik bahagiakan dirimu dulu dan fokus karir buat masa depan. Sendiri itu ga buruk kok, sumpah. Jangan mudah dibaperin cowok!
Ini psikopat sih anjir 💚
Kalian sadar gk ?
banyak daerah yg udah mulai demo tapi gk disiarkan media
Daerah yg sudah mulai Demo:
- Jakarta (Cikini Raya & Badan Gizi Nasional)
- Bandung (DPRD Jabar)
- Medan (Lapangan Merdeka)
- Kendari (Bundaran Tank)
- Semarang
Katanya mulai merembet ke Sulawesi & Sumatera juga 💀
setelah itu jadi sadar, kenapa mesti takut with the idea of “getting replaced”? aint that how this life works? sesederhana memahami ya mungkin sampai di situ aja perannya. dan itu ga papa. not everyone means to stay in our life forever.
some people stay, some teach us a lesson.
High empathy sucks cause when you understand why people are the way they are you realize most people aren't truly evil they're just dumb and incapable of viewing the world outside of their own experiences which makes it hard to truly hate them even if they are ugly inside.
Pola asuh masa lalu emang ngebentuk tangki awal kita. Tapi di psikologi, kunci buat ngisi ulangnya adalah Self-Dependency (kemandirian emosional). Artinya, kita mengambil alih kendali penuh dan gak lagi meletakkan "saklar" kebahagiaan kita di tangan orang lain
"Ugh, only humans wage war on each other"
~Some 14 year old
"Let the seas boil! Let the stars fall!"
~Tortoise after his leaf is eaten by another tortoise over a century ago
A partner who punishes you with silent treatment is a very toxic person. Silent treatment is not a cooling off period. It is not needing space to think. It is control. It is punishment. It is emotional manipulation dressed in silence.
For the recipient, silent treatment is almost the same as physical pain. Brain studies have shown that social rejection activates the same neural pathways as physical pain. When someone you love shuts you out without explanation, your brain registers it as a blow. You feel it in your chest. You struggle to sleep. You replay every conversation trying to figure out what you did wrong.
Over time, you begin to doubt your own sanity and your own reality. You question your memory. You question your worth. You start apologising for things you did not do, just to end the silence. That is not love. That is a hostage situation.
A person who uses silent treatment as a weapon is not resolving conflict. They are avoiding it while making you suffer. It is a very wicked, evil thing to do to someone you claim to love.
If you are in a relationship where silence is used to punish you, know this you are not crazy. You are being manipulated. And you deserve someone who will speak to you even when they are angry, because love does not go mute when conflict arrives.