@reachrachelkahn Hi! Iโm a practicing mental health therapist that is AuHD and you are correct in your analysis. Autism/ADHD are commonly missed in young ladies because of gender stereotypes which often leads to a misdiagnosis of BPD later in life or until someone can see the neurodivergence.
While true, telling someone who avoids discomfort that there is more discomfort and chaos waiting can often keep them trapped in patterns of avoidance.
@Emmijen โฅ๏ธ i miiiisss you!! your telepathy is obviously still on point because I literally told myself I need to message you a couple days ago ๐ will be sliding thru soon
@ariagmitter@QautaunoyaGile1 Hellenistic astrology touches on this concept. Itโs opposing the 10th which is the highest point of the sun. When the sun enters into the 4th house itโs literally in the depths of the โunderworldโ. A womb of transformation where the shadows can be found.
Compassion doesnโt mean not having boundaries. In fact, authentic compassion arises when our boundaries are clear and functioning well.
By honoring our limits, we create a more sustainable and honest space for connection. We can then show up fully to support and care for others.
Wounded men see women as objects to use. Healthy men see women as companions to bond with. Divine men see women as spiritual oracles that they must protect at all costs.
@solelunastro Cap rising and feeling empowered to change the relational dynamics that haven't worked for me for soooooo long, both in my career and personal relationships