Trying to heal, while trying to grieve, while trying to forgive, while trying to forget, while trying to love, while trying to be loved…….. that’s a lot for one heart.
Let him text who he wants.
Let him follow whoever.
Let him act unbothered.
Because when you stop trying to control it the truth always reveals itself. You're not losing anything by stepping back. You're just giving space for the truth to surface.
Gentle men are so attractive. Imagine being with someone who never raises your voice at you, point out your wrong doings in a nice tone, always communicate & reassures instead of bottling up inside. Men who actually admit they want you & put their pride aside to save the Bond>>
Just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… All that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. People love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
healthy relationships are tight as fuck. it’s so cool to be able to be like “hey you’re doing these things that are really bothering me let’s address them and work on it.” and have it not end in arguing and insults. communication is super attractive .