SamTheFirst

TheRE's nO eVidEnCe yOu tRiEd,iF yOu dOn'T mAkE iT......YNWA❣️💯

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

Masterpiece

[𝐈𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞 𝐊𝐥𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐠 @iamklausenburg]

I know that I've laid so much emphasis on why it is important for a woman or woman to be on good terms with the males around her, particularly the men in her life.

As much as there are bad stories about relatives. Those relatives are genuinely the only ones that can do something

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@jon_d_doe A man owes his wife financial transparency & efficient planning
A wife owes her husband financial accountability & prudency

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@KerenKBitto Mechanic, wrestler, tech bro, 🤣🤣🤣... The kind combo no dey earth, na pluto e dey..
Make I go learn plumbing,mechanic,electrician, because I won impress
Make I dey Waka dey fight because wife call me😅.. God abeg o..
Na God dey save mumu🥱🤣

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@ogunmusi @Wizarab10 You are weirdly creative 😂😂 damn😂😂😂

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

There won't be sex if they are not cohabiting?

Sex is not why you are running from cohabitation. 99% of sex had by every sexually active person are with people they were not cohabiting with. You are afraid your partner will see you for who you are, and not marry you.

You're just using sex to hide your real fear.

[Black_Melanin🥰 @itz_taser]

Yesterday, I told my colleague who’s a married man that any woman who’s always saying “my money is my own and my husband’s money is our own”, is a self!sh and a w!cked woman.

He said I’m just saying it and that when I marry I might not maintain the same energy, I told him, I grew up seeing my mother assisting my father in running the household, so I know every woman can do it if they want to.

You don’t need to be married to know what’s good and ev!l.

A lot of women will have money but watch their husbands suffer in order to solve one problem or the other in the family, but will choose not to assist him because he’s the man of the house.

I know all these states from relationships and men often ignores them.

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@LilianErnest_ @encryptedav Cook!!!!

[𝐈𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞 𝐊𝐥𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐠 @iamklausenburg]

In the process of building your relationship, fights will occur.

Yes, a physical brawl between you both.

You will cuss each other out and regret ever knowing yourselves.

The woman will certainly call the man "an abuser" even when she knew she wasn't innocent.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

This is what a non-transactional relationship looks like.

1. You go on dates, the man pays for it.

2. She visits him, she pays for her transport.

3. On their special dates, they gift each other whatever they can afford without comparing or competing with each other.

4. She pays for her hair, airtime, rent, etc, and he does the same.

5. If they're cohabiting, she brings and he brings, but he pays for the rent. And the bringing doesn't have to be equal.

6. If they're serious, she continues to look for ways to invest in him, while he continues to look for ways to invest in the future of both of them.

7. If she's in genuine financial needs, he can offer to help as much as possible if he can.

8. Once in a while, he can decide to give her money randomly. Especially when she does something he's proud of.

9. He's not responsible for her siblings or parents' financial needs or wants.

10. Sex is never weaponised or commercialised. It happens because both of are adults and you enjoy pleasing each other sexually.

11. You genuinely care for each other, and would still continue to care for each other, even when sex has not been involved for a while.

12. If the woman "loans" him money, he has to pay back. And if he "loans" her money, she doesn't necessarily have to pay back or pay all.

End.

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@Chrisblin @Wizarab10 If you ever go weak on her if she tries using the kids as leverage, God will take your left eye by 2am.. Amen

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@IamDrReason @Damviews So shallow minded people bro.......
Likeeee... You can only get pregnant through cohabitation 😂😂😂

[ISAAC @IsaacO35755]

You think being in a relationship and leading a woman without money is easy?
It’s not.
Most men don’t lead. They spend.
👇🏾
Money has become the shortcut. Pay bills. Buy gifts. Rent attention. Avoid real responsibility.
But spending is not leadership.
Money can make a woman stay. It cannot make her feel safe.
A woman can smile in abundance and still feel empty inside.
Because money only covers absence. It doesn’t fix it.
When money is the loudest thing you bring to a relationship, it’s usually because something else is missing.
Vision. Consistency. Emotional stability. Direction.
Leading without money exposes a man.
No leverage. No distraction. Just character.
Can you communicate without shouting? Can you reassure without spending? Can you stay consistent when life is hard?
Many men underestimate women. They think women are impressed by money alone.
They’re not.
Women read effort. Tone. Patterns. Intentions.
A woman will endure lack with a man who has purpose, but she will suffocate in abundance with a man who has none.
Life is patient. It allows men to enjoy seasons where money hides their flaws.
But money doesn’t stay forever. And when it leaves, everything you avoided developing shows up.
Leadership is not control. It is responsibility.
Responsibility for your words. Your actions. Your emotional environment.
Money is important. But it is not enough.
If it was, rich men would never lose good women.
Life will teach you this lesson. Not with noise. With experience.

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@IsaacO35755 @Wizarab10 Weldon sir!!.. your choice of words to elaborate this , is amazing.... You are wise!!!!

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@guzu_p "I rate myself so high , to think less of myself because of a woman".
It's in the mind, esteem, confidence

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@Teeniiola As a man, there should be that thin line between fear and respect ..
That is why they do well with toxic men,... E get some kind thing woman suppose no try with you !..
Because she no say , e no go end well...
Y'all weak men be safe out there

[ThatBlessedGirl @BlessedGirl001]

MEN ARE NOT THE PRIZE!!!

Okay;

"Men are not the prize", yet you paid your fellow women 10k for a book on how to bill a man.

"Men are not the prize", yet you do diabolical things to trap a man to marry you.

"Men are not the prize", but after you divorce your husband telling social media how horrible he is, still, your best friend went ahead and married him.

"Men are not the prize", but when your boyfriend propose to you, nobody hear word again online. Only you carry ring-light, post 13 videos about your engagement.

"Men are not the prize", yet your papa exchange you with 12 tubers of yam, 5 bags of rice, 5kegs of palm wine, 2 Nanny goats and 13k for bride price.

"Men are not the prize", But na you dey take risky trip all the way from Jos to Lagos to see that same man for the first time.

"Men are not the prize", but na you dey do fasting and prayer make God give you husband even if na Aki and pawpaw.
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Men are the prize because women made it so. If you think its a lie, come out from your marriage first. You fellow woman will still go for him regardless of the red flags he has. — Some of you reading this thread, your friends are already eyeing your boyfriend. They wish it was them that's in your position. If they have just one opportunity to sabotage your relationship and takeOver from you, they will do it!!

This is why when your Husband tells you to cut off from your friend,
He has already seen that she's either a bad influence to you, or she has her eyes on him.

But instead, you question him and defend your girl, until it happens
Then you start crying "I thought you were my friend".

Whether you like to hear it or not, Men are the Prize, and It doesn't make women less Valuable.

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@london_Akan @Wizarab10 I don dey follow since o..

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@Wizarab10 Pls Just follow, I'll do same .. ejor

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@Deborah_vickkie @heis_beebah 🤣🤣🤣

[SamTheFirst @SamTheFirst5]

@iffy_unusual @FifeKunmi @Omiragua_Teejay It's not about the tone, it was about her saying it out loud Infront of his friend

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Explain the “for better, for worse” vow you people make before God.

I know it means that we are together forever and will face the world together - come rain, come sun. When everything is going well, and when nothing is going well, we stand by each other.

So tell me why your life is on edge because you know if anything happens to
Your finances, your wife will not respect you again, will cheat, deny you sex , and start misbehaving. You’re not even assuming, YOU KNOW!

Tell me why you know this and you went ahead to marry the same person. Are you not your own enemy? Then you’ll now use that template to be giving marital advice. I should pray nothing happens to my finances because my wife no go forgive me. Is that a marriage? Why should I apologize for being broke? Is marriage by force that you have to stay and chop disrespect?