The hunters never had it easy. The return with the game or hunted prey is all what the people saw and celebrated. The efforts put into planning, setting traps, patiently waiting for the perfect time to attack, the many days of disappointments, days where the
The word of Faith movement is simply false. It is poison. Everyone should be warned to stay clear of their doctrines.
I remember being new to the faith and listening to this lady on Twitter who was teaching how we could control the weather by speaking to it, how we could speak life into phones and gadgets that no longer worked and see a change happen.
She spoke greatly about the power of our words to change things. Because I was new to these things, I assumed she had attained some level of spiritual authority and maturity, but NO, she was misguided. There is nothing in God’s word that elevates the speech of mere mortals to a point where it can create new realities.
“Who is he who speaks and it comes to pass,
when the Lord has not commanded it?” - Lamentations 3:37.
All such doctrines and ideas that make people believe they can shape their outcomes by their declarations and confessions are unfounded in the Scriptures. And those who are honest, who truly take time to think, will find out in time the futility of these doctrines, as they keep confessing many things that never come to pass.
Because it is not in man to order his ways. You cannot independently confess things into being that were never sanctioned by God. That desire is even an ungodly desperation for control over your future. Jesus already taught us to be fixated on the present and to commit the rest of our lives to God. The obsession with declarations is a sign of faithlessness.
This confession thing is also legalism. You are essentially trying to earn good outcomes from God by your works. You really think the strength of your confessions will give you some spiritual merit before God. Your trust is in the strength of your declarations as a system to secure yourself. And this is not what faith is.
None of this is true Christianity. It is an ungodly way to approach God, who sent His Son to die for you when you were a wretched sinner. What confession did you make for Christ to take your place on the cross? And why exactly do you think that will be the basis for getting good gifts from God? If He freely gave His Son, what good gift will He withhold from His children? Think.
Don’t spend your life making declarations and confessions, thinking you are exerting yourself spiritually. Or because you know someone it worked for, thinking your time will soon come. This is not how to follow the Lord Jesus Christ. We do not look to the experiences of others without testing them by the Scriptures. Just because it worked does not mean they were in obedience.
Trust in Christ. Pray to God in humility, expressing your needs and desires, and also abandon yourself to His sovereignty. This is the true exercise of faith. Resting utterly in the character and revelation of God. Your life is His business to order for His glory. Insist on His word, not your way. You are not omniscient, and there is no way for you to know the best outcomes for your life with your limited mind.
Trust in Christ alone.
She left me after saying...
“I prayed about it… and I don’t think we’re meant to be.”
No fight.
No drama.
Just a quiet ending that didn’t feel like it should be the end.
I asked if she was sure. She said yes. I asked if there was someone else.
She said no.
I asked what changed. She said, “Nothing changed… I just feel peace about walking away.”
And that was the hardest part. Because how do you argue with “peace”?
So I let her go.
The weeks after felt empty.
Not dramatic, just a silence where something familiar used to be.
I prayed, not even to get her back, but just to understand what God was doing.
Slowly, I started changing too.
I stopped chasing answers in panic. I stopped forcing clarity. I focused on my own life, my walk with God, my healing.
Months passed.
Then a year.
One day, she texted: “I need to see you.”
We met at a café. She looked different, calmer, softer, like someone who had survived a storm.
She said she had been wrong.
Not wrong about feelings, but about timing, fear, and assuming peace always means exit.
“I thought God was removing you,” she said, “but I think He was shaping both of us.”
We didn’t rush anything. We talked, we prayed, we moved slowly this time, with wisdom instead of emotion.
What surprised me most wasn’t that we found our way back…
It’s that we came back as different people.
Not healed by time alone, but by surrender.
Now I don’t see it as a breakup.
I see it as a pause God used to rebuild two people who weren’t yet ready for what they were praying for.
Sometimes God doesn’t say “no.”
Sometimes He says, “not yet… I’m still working on you.”
After I gave this girl my bodyy, she still left me. She decieved me.
I will go naked this night, tie Uziza rope on my manhood and swear for her. The pain of a man can bring down the wrath of God 💅
Date cancelled. I asked her to pay for my haircut and outfit, and to send a ride to my place to take me to the location, but she declined. Biggest red flag I have ever seen. I dodged a bullet. 🚩