Mnataka kuniambia in a country of English speakers yall are impressed that someone with a rank in the Airforce that earns 120 a month speaks well? Huku mahali Speed aliongeleshwa kizungu hadi na vitoto vidogo? Mnanishtua.
They raised me to be one of those mute and timid children who eventually became a mute and timid adult, yet everyone is surprised that I’m failing job interviews. I’m scared to speak freely with most of the adults in my life.
Everyone keeps talking about “giving grace to your parents” but you hardly hear them say give grace to your children. It’s embedded in our culture and religion. That is why we have so many parents repeating the cycle because they know the society will always back them up.
I find it so #fascinating that someone would educate themselves on how to raise a dog before getting one but just go ahead and have kids without thinking similar learning is required to the point they end up applying dog rearing methodologies to their kids.
Can we also celebrate those young women who refuse to be pregnant out of wedlock,uneducated and unemployed ..this girl's sense of responsibility needs to be celebrated as well instead of being labelled "infertile” 😒💔