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@AffairRecovery@Infidelityscars Tomorrow, 12 Oct 2020, is 'D-day,' 1st year after my life was destroyed. The anxiety is overwhelming my brain. One good thing comes from this, my house has been meticulously cleaned & organized. My dogs have been bathed, nails trimmed & have cute haircuts. 29 hours to go...
@elletomany Someone who did not even know me but worked with my H sent me a message bc she felt that I deserved to know what was happening. I am grateful that she did.
@HoldingOn_2Hope Trust takes on a whole new meaning than it did in BC (Before Cheating.) Trust in the AD (After Discovery) life is limited, completely different & never the same. There's always the little voice in your head that wonders & worries. Praying for you!
@Woundedsheepdog I am planning to get another tattoo when I reclaim my brain from the chaos that has infiltrated and consumed it since I learned of my spouse's choice to cheat on me while telling me to plan a 'real wedding' since we were married by a Notary.
@Infidelityscars I don't know if that has ever happened to me. Everything is in doubt after a betrayal. I once believed that my love was equally reciprocated, but now it is confusing & bewildering. A fear of loving or being loved is now the norm.
@WeAre__Warriors Any lie diminishes the foundation of a relationship. When the truth finally comes to light, doubts, resentment & insecurities begin to form. The best thing to do is take the time necessary to get to know someone & gage what you reveal based on where you are in the relationship.
We'd like to simply 'fix' our grief and make it go away and just be done with it. We can't. It's far more complicated than that. It has more layers than we understand.
We have to process through our grief.
The only way around grief is actually THROUGH it.
As anarchy reigns in Seattle, the mayor there calls the hostile takeover of public streets a “block party.” The governor, Inslee, is hiding under his desk. So would you move from Seattle if you lived there?