People with capital, expertise and fearless ambition are selective. Extra ordinary circle of friends doesn’t start with proximity. It starts wth bringing your highest version of self in the room. The version that screams “1% better everyday” “student of life” & “take a bet on me”
May sound selfish but I have become a pro at keeping people on the circumference and outskirts of my life. Strictly, because I am a deep empath and can only function and contribute if my boundaries are bulletproof.
The name of the game is BOUNDARY
Everybody talks about pursuing ambitions but no one talks about what it takes. Chasing dreams is a lonely journey. No one talks about the financial dips, burning midnight oil, fading friendships, constant failing and the sheer effort it takes to always believe in yourself.
People will normalize and justify the unimportance of a skillset or a character trait just because they don’t have discipline, ability and work ethic to acquire it.
——- on saving face and throwing shade