female characters dont need to be bloodthirsty, sarcastic, and arrogant to be considered strong and powerful. having a soft personality doesnt equate to being weak
AITA posts with titles like "AITA for poisoning my entire family" will be stories about someone who behaved in a totally reasonable, justified manner, while "AITA for cooking my wife her favorite dinner" will be the most chilling tale of sociopathy you've ever read.