Aquarius & Capricorn placements are truly NOT meant to be fucked with. ♒️♑️
The karma people receive from fucking around with them is NO joke. 🤭
The funny thing is Aquarius & Capricorn placements don’t even have to retaliate or get their revenge on others because Saturn will do that for you. 🪐
Your enemies & people who do things to tear you down will know the consequences of fucking around with you. 🤷🏾♀️
Aquarius & Capricorn placements are in good hands, never forget it. 🖤
8H placements can eat up the karma or stagnant energy in the environment they're in. They purge it. As a result, they receive backlash, anger, painful experiences thrown in their face. But when they leave, that environment can never be the same.
It's forced to change.
When parents carry unhealed trauma they often don’t have the capacity to nurture & care for their child in a healthy way
This isn’t because they don’t love them but rather they don’t know how to manage what’s happening within themselves
Trauma is generational & so is healing.
Not all who trigger you intend to hurt you. Some individuals can inspire healing, helping you identify the source of buried pain and empowering you to love yourself back to wholeness.
Love won’t rescue you.
It won’t take away uncomfortable feelings.
It won’t heal your wounds— sometimes it’ll open them.
Releasing the idea of love as perfection is the first step of emotional maturity.
Love is a choice, not a feeling.
Healers understand it’s not so much what they say and do that helps others, but the deep sense of presence they can offer. The more in tune with stillness and attentiveness you can hold for someone, the greater the capacity to help them heal.
Nervous systems heal in slowness. If you are putting the same pressures on yourself to heal that you put on yourself in your dysregulated life, your nervous system will remain dysregulated. Softeness and safety cannot be present where there is urgency and pressure.
The mental health system is all about "getting you back to normal."
Back to work. Back to daily life.
We need to teach people how to build lives that don't make them sick in the first place.
Why are we focused on getting people comfortable with the dysfunction of normal...
Stop saying: stay for the kids.
Staying in unhealthy or toxic relationships doesn’t help children.
It teaches them to accept dysfunction.
It teaches them disrespect is a normal part of relationships.
Sometimes the most powerful thing a child can witness is a parent walking away.
They learn: if I need to, I can choose me, too.
It’s permission seek what’s healthy and leave what is not.
Few people talk about the damage that comes from growing up with parents who stayed together and cannot stand each other.