Hey, so rape is actually always 100% the rapists fault. There is no level of shared responsibility. This is true. Always. Thank you for coming to my talk.
i’m so fucking tired of men assessing women by the same rubric they use for themselves, as if we’ve all been moving through the same world.
you see a woman in the same job, at the same party, in the same room as you, and assume she got there with the same freedom you did. bhai, how?
i have twenty things to think about that you may never have had to consider. i cannot fall asleep in a cab because i need to watch where it’s going. i don’t book flights that land here late. if i order Zomato after 2 a.m., i make sure the delivery person knows i have a dog at home, so they don’t think i’m alone. when i walk at night, i feel safer with my dog because some men are more afraid of him than of the consequences of hurting me.
i’ve had palpitations living alone. but i do. i’ve been sexually assaulted in my own house, previously. so please understand that these aren’t hypotheticals i’m inventing to win an argument. these are calculations running in the background while i’m working, making friends, having conversations, trying to live my fucking life.
and i have privileges. i’m not Dalit. i grew up with financial security and an education. there are women navigating caste, money, family restrictions and violence in ways i cannot claim to understand. being in the same room as someone tells you fuck all about what it took them to get there.
so how are some of you this comfortable looking at a woman and deciding she isn’t bold enough, accomplished enough, interesting enough, whatever the fuck your measure is? (not quoting that tweet cause I’m not about to give a man that distribution advantage, either) have you ever stopped to ask what she’s had to navigate to become the person standing in front of you?
you’re allowed to find an individual person boring. but women around me are talking about assault, rape and how unsafe they feel in this country, and some man’s grand intellectual contribution is that the women in his life aren’t entertaining enough.
what the fuck is wrong with you? and why are the rest of you treating that like a serious hot take?
Time zones are crazy. It's 11 AM in New York, 3 AM in New Zealand, and somehow 1920 AD in India, where women are protesting for the right to roam freely on the roads.
@savanaglobal Extremely disappointed with your return pickup service. I have 2 approved returns, but the pickup agent hasn’t contacted me or attempted to pickup. Instead, I’m repeatedly asked to reschedule.What bothers me is that there are zero attempts for this @ShiprocketIndia
@savanaglobal@ShiprocketCare Hi facing same issue with another order and haven’t been able to connect with any agent. I have raised my concerns but they aren’t getting. Do let me know on how to get the return completed?
Looking back i shouldn’t be explaining people normal behaviour that anyone will have but ig it is my people pleasing nature that got me here. Growing up is nobody owes an explanation over their reaction if they aren’t your near dear ones especially WOMEN
Quite honestly if I didn't know the guy(stranger) I would have the exact same reaction.
"Your security is always in your hands"- something I have and all the girls have learnt the hard way because if something happens society is 100% going to blame us.
saw a guy compliment Indian girls on her looks, they instantly froze, looked uncomfortable,no smile..like he was being creepy.
same guy did the exact same thing abroad, girls smiled, said thanks.. exchanged numbers
why such a stark difference?
Honestly what is making all these companies switch to chatbot for the customer service like how do i explain missing item to a fucking chatbot . Worst of all is @AJIOLife. I am just fed up. I have been trying to contact customer service for way too long but they only escalate.
Honestly amazon, flipkart and myntra atleast have dedicated customers care to call to. Idk which will be my worst experience now @AJIOLife or savanaa. God help me i have one more parcel coming it from savanaa in a few days. I am so dead of fighting these bots FOR MY MONEY
Honestly what is making all these companies switch to chatbot for the customer service like how do i explain missing item to a fucking chatbot . Worst of all is @AJIOLife. I am just fed up. I have been trying to contact customer service for way too long but they only escalate.
@savanaglobal Extremely disappointed with your return pickup service. I have 2 approved returns, but the pickup agent hasn’t contacted me or attempted to pickup. Instead, I’m repeatedly asked to reschedule.What bothers me is that there are zero attempts for this @ShiprocketIndia
They ask why she doesn’t wear the same dress on Eid but wears it on a Hindu festival.
you’re the ones who say Islam is regressive,and women have no right while Hinduism is progressive.
You already know the reason, so why even ask? tumhare baap se puchhke thodi koi kpde pahnega.
"People are not offended when women feel opressed by the culture, but they are offended when they feel free because of it" Oh she clocked those incels so bad 🤏🏻
God corporate sucks so bad especially with toxic af colleagues….i hate that i even have expectations and that every time i think i won’t let this hurt me but i again end up getting hurt ….fuck being sensitive like this